I love my Dh. We planned our LO and were so excited when I found out I was pregnant. He was so attentive and invovled, never missed an appt.
Now that baby is here, he is off in other world. He sits on his phone or ipad All The Time. He never gets down and plays with baby. He used to do baths but has done one is about 7 months. He maybe changes 1 diaper a day. When I ask him to play with us he will sit next to us on his phone or absently move toys around while watching youtube videos. I wanna smash that damn phone. When I cook dinner, I give baby to daddy. If baby starts fushing, DH doesn't attend to him. Ds escalates, then dh comes in the kitchen and says "I can't deal with him, he only wants you." Usually he will bring in the highchair or walker thing so I can watch baby while I cook. If dh has him and I'm doing chores, he will hold baby and follow me around. :(
Even with big decisions, I make them all. He says "What ever you wanna do." I ask what he thinks and he says "You do all the research on that stuff, its up to you." So frustrating.
I'm afraid he is missing so much and I don't understand why he doesn't want to spend more time with our LO, he's so precious!
I don't know what to do! I'm so angry and frustrated. I feel like if dh doesn't appriciate our son, then I don't even want him around. I getting where I can hardly stand the sight of dh and we often just leave the room, which I know isn't helping the situation.