We're divorced now. He willingly gave up custody of his children and only sees them for a couple hours twice a month when it's convenient to him. He's moving several states away soon and not working so that he doesn't have to pay the full amount in child support. He changed and he is not the man I had married.
Now I'm with an amazing man. He's taken on the roll of father to my girls without hesitation. He loves us, and we love him. He's good and kind and he wants to marry me.
I'm afraid though. What if he changes too? I don't want to screw up again. I don't want my life to be a series of divorces. He's never had children, never been married, and that's the path he wants to go down with me. I don't know what to do. I'm so scared of the same thing happening.