I am nervous about telling my stepdaughter, because of course she will want to tell her mom, that's her mom after all.
This woman is not very accepting of our marriage, for no other reason than she doesn't think he deserves her,me or any woman, because he doesn't make a ton of money. She has told me this. She got drunk one night and called me telling me he's going to leave me in debt etc. That doesn't even make sense since I handle all of our finances lol
She has assaulted my husband in the past, when we moved in together and when we got married. When we got married, she was two inches from her daughters face screaming at her to say goodbye to daddy and that fucking whore, because you are never going to see them again ( I was not the other woman )
So needless to say, we are worried about her "ruining" my sd's joy over a new baby. And losing her damn mind
How would you tell her ?