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Would you let your 9th grade daughter...?

Posted by Anonymous

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Have a boyfriend in 12th grade?

If you believed she was intelligent and mature enough to make wise decisions, and he seemed kind and polite~? Internal dilemma here..

Posted by Anonymous on Feb. 24, 2013 at 10:59 PM

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Sassy762

on Feb. 24, 2013 at 11:00 PM

by Anonymous on Feb. 24, 2013 at 11:01 PM

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Yes because she is just going to sneak behind your back and do it anyhow. Ask my mom if I dated a senior when I was in 9th grade, I bet she will tell you I didn't.

Not_A_Native

Platinum Member on Feb. 24, 2013 at 11:01 PM

I have. It didn't last a long time, and they weren't allowed too many places. He broke up with her after a few months.

dlock25

Bronze Member on Feb. 24, 2013 at 11:02 PM

No because mine won't date till 16.

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by Anonymous on Feb. 24, 2013 at 11:02 PM

Sure. I dated a senior in high school. He was more of a good kid than I was! lol

alexsmomaubrys2

Ruby Member on Feb. 24, 2013 at 11:02 PM

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Yes. I don't see a problem with it. It won't last once he leaves for college.

squeekers

Gold Member on Feb. 24, 2013 at 11:03 PM

our dd was raised knowing she was not allowed to date until she was 16 and only a boy within the same grade age as her. period. she is dating a nice young man who is 28 days younger than her.

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Lovebugbaby

Bronze Member on Feb. 24, 2013 at 11:03 PM

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Nope. Chasity belt, bubble, dating shield... No one will try to get past that ;)

by Anonymous on Feb. 24, 2013 at 11:04 PM

This

Quoting Anonymous:

Yes because she is just going to sneak behind your back and do it anyhow. Ask my mom if I dated a senior when I was in 9th grade, I bet she will tell you I didn't.