I hate the way you judge my son. He comes from nothing but a loving home and his inability to grace the milestone charts at your expected rate is annoying. He's a smart child, and he is perfect to me, delays and all. I intend to work with my child at his pace and help him keep learning than to be like you and shove my son off to daycares and sitters galore while you party or do your nails. I'm not setting him back, I'm doing my best. Try it some time. It's called being a PARENT.