So my husband has been unemployed for a over a year now. I have been working for a little over a year now.
We usually put our bill money back in the safe and he hold the rest of the money. It has been like this since he has been unemployed because he is home all the time and i don't want to carry the money on me to work. ( we don't have a bank account, we don't trust them).
Anyways, he may be starting to work soon and I told him when he starts working we need to put all the money in the safe so we can both has access to it and he told me, he will be holding it still. WTF, the only reason why he hold it now is because he is home and can go buy stuff needed but if he is working too then it needs to be somewhere where we can both access it and get as needed.
When i was a sahm and he was working, i always kept the money in the safe, he could get whatever he needed and i could get what i needed. Where the fuck does he get off thinking he should hold all of our money, like he is the only one needing it. If he goes to work before i do and takes all of the money, what am i suppose to do if i need gas or if i need to grab something.
This is going to be a problem i know it. uggggg
BTW, this is just a vent.