I just cheated on dh ETA
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My ex came over. He gave me a hug and we held each other for a while. Then we kissed.
He kept asking to eat me out but I kept saying no. He kept asking why and I told him I just couldn't. Ds woke up and I finally got him back to sleep after hours of trying. In the meantime ex fell asleep on me with his head on my shoulder. I woke him up when I got ds to sleep.
He kept asking to eat me out and I kept saying no. Well we started making out and one thing led to another. He ate me out and then we had sex. He came in me but I'm already pregnant so I can't get pregnant again. I can't believe that just happened!! I feel horrible! :'(
ETA: I wrote that right after dropping him off at his house. Let me clarify some things:
We have a long history, as teens we smoked together and would have sex. The first time I laid there stuff as a board, it took him 30 minutes to get my pants off because I wouldn't move. After that it wasn't a big deal to me.
The last time this happened (different husband) I told him no but he knew how to get his way.
Last night: I invited him over for dinner. We had talked on fb (I'll screenshot it if anyone wants proof) and he PROMISED it wouldn't go any further than I wanted. I told him only cuddling. He said ok, he promised nothing more. So when he came over he had 2 beers with him and I later found out he had been drinking all night. (I can still taste it and its making me nauseous) well, ds was awake when he got here so he hugged me, held me for a little while and then kissed me. I pulled away and told him I couldn't but he kept on, so I have in. While ds was awake he tried to eat me out, I kept telling him no! I laid on the floor to get away from him and he laid ontop of me (I was on my stomach) and started humping me. Then he took my pants off. I said NO! I got him off of me and told him "I said no!" And he said "well ok". Then I put my pants back on and got ds to sleep. Since ex was laying his head on my shoulder I had to wake him up to put ds in bed. He stared kissing me again, I said no. He took my pants off, I said no. I kept saying no! He was so pushy, I finally gave in. When he was done I got dressed, got ds and took ex home. I feel horrible, I know I should. I shouldn't have invited him over, I know! But I did, stupidly thinking we were just going to talk.
There. That's what happened, like I've said I wish I was a troll!
He kept asking to eat me out but I kept saying no. He kept asking why and I told him I just couldn't. Ds woke up and I finally got him back to sleep after hours of trying. In the meantime ex fell asleep on me with his head on my shoulder. I woke him up when I got ds to sleep.
He kept asking to eat me out and I kept saying no. Well we started making out and one thing led to another. He ate me out and then we had sex. He came in me but I'm already pregnant so I can't get pregnant again. I can't believe that just happened!! I feel horrible! :'(
ETA: I wrote that right after dropping him off at his house. Let me clarify some things:
We have a long history, as teens we smoked together and would have sex. The first time I laid there stuff as a board, it took him 30 minutes to get my pants off because I wouldn't move. After that it wasn't a big deal to me.
The last time this happened (different husband) I told him no but he knew how to get his way.
Last night: I invited him over for dinner. We had talked on fb (I'll screenshot it if anyone wants proof) and he PROMISED it wouldn't go any further than I wanted. I told him only cuddling. He said ok, he promised nothing more. So when he came over he had 2 beers with him and I later found out he had been drinking all night. (I can still taste it and its making me nauseous) well, ds was awake when he got here so he hugged me, held me for a little while and then kissed me. I pulled away and told him I couldn't but he kept on, so I have in. While ds was awake he tried to eat me out, I kept telling him no! I laid on the floor to get away from him and he laid ontop of me (I was on my stomach) and started humping me. Then he took my pants off. I said NO! I got him off of me and told him "I said no!" And he said "well ok". Then I put my pants back on and got ds to sleep. Since ex was laying his head on my shoulder I had to wake him up to put ds in bed. He stared kissing me again, I said no. He took my pants off, I said no. I kept saying no! He was so pushy, I finally gave in. When he was done I got dressed, got ds and took ex home. I feel horrible, I know I should. I shouldn't have invited him over, I know! But I did, stupidly thinking we were just going to talk.
There. That's what happened, like I've said I wish I was a troll!
Posted by Anonymous on Feb. 27, 2013 at 6:45 AM
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on Feb. 27, 2013 at 11:41 AM
oh then...she was definately asking for this kind of trouble....she knew where that whole thing was going...smdh
Quoting Anonymous:
I think so.
Heyyyyyy OP. Go update your other post saying what's going on with your x now!!!
Quoting WandaSue:
was she the one with the exfb??
Quoting Anonymous:
Is this the xfb girl/ ashley?
If so, I saw this post coming.
didn't listen to anyone.
and clearly he came there for one reason and one reason only. You allowed him to use you.. so much for not cheating. In a few weeks get checked for stds.
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RunningMomma
on Feb. 27, 2013 at 11:42 AM
I really dont know what to say other than why did you let it happen?Plus you are already pregnant?Good luck.
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on Feb. 27, 2013 at 11:44 AM
This!! WHY????
Quoting Two_Hearts:why on earth did you put yourself in that perdictament????
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on Feb. 27, 2013 at 11:45 AM
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"..he kept asking to eat me out."
HOW romantic.
Just say it 7 more times, OP, and I'll stop dry-heaving........
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on Feb. 27, 2013 at 11:46 AM
If you really didn't want him, you would have kicked him out when he first started meing the moves on you, instead you let him stay. This is all on you and I seriously doubt this is going to be an isolated incident. He deserves someone who will drop kick the ex out the door not let him stay to convice you it's ok cause you are already preggers.
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