I just cheated on dh ETA

[Anonymous]

My ex came over. He gave me a hug and we held each other for a while. Then we kissed.

He kept asking to eat me out but I kept saying no. He kept asking why and I told him I just couldn't. Ds woke up and I finally got him back to sleep after hours of trying. In the meantime ex fell asleep on me with his head on my shoulder. I woke him up when I got ds to sleep.

He kept asking to eat me out and I kept saying no. Well we started making out and one thing led to another. He ate me out and then we had sex. He came in me but I'm already pregnant so I can't get pregnant again. I can't believe that just happened!! I feel horrible! :'(

ETA: I wrote that right after dropping him off at his house. Let me clarify some things:
We have a long history, as teens we smoked together and would have sex. The first time I laid there stuff as a board, it took him 30 minutes to get my pants off because I wouldn't move. After that it wasn't a big deal to me.
The last time this happened (different husband) I told him no but he knew how to get his way.
Last night: I invited him over for dinner. We had talked on fb (I'll screenshot it if anyone wants proof) and he PROMISED it wouldn't go any further than I wanted. I told him only cuddling. He said ok, he promised nothing more. So when he came over he had 2 beers with him and I later found out he had been drinking all night. (I can still taste it and its making me nauseous) well, ds was awake when he got here so he hugged me, held me for a little while and then kissed me. I pulled away and told him I couldn't but he kept on, so I have in. While ds was awake he tried to eat me out, I kept telling him no! I laid on the floor to get away from him and he laid ontop of me (I was on my stomach) and started humping me. Then he took my pants off. I said NO! I got him off of me and told him "I said no!" And he said "well ok". Then I put my pants back on and got ds to sleep. Since ex was laying his head on my shoulder I had to wake him up to put ds in bed. He stared kissing me again, I said no. He took my pants off, I said no. I kept saying no! He was so pushy, I finally gave in. When he was done I got dressed, got ds and took ex home. I feel horrible, I know I should. I shouldn't have invited him over, I know! But I did, stupidly thinking we were just going to talk.
There. That's what happened, like I've said I wish I was a troll!

[ravensdreams]

there was no way at you, you couldnt have asked him to leave? Who cares how he would have got home if he was being  a complete ass to you.

[Redwall]

The first thing that comes to mind is "slut." I'm sorry, but you ARE married, right? And pregnant too? Good lord.... I trust your marriage won't last.

[Jcothrine]

i didn't see her previous post.. while i will agree that she put herself in a stupid situation..i will never think that rape is right.... you should be able to have a male friend and talk and not have sex if you don't want to... i know you are saying that she wanted to... then why did she say no repeatedly? to make herself feel better later?

she put herself in a bad spot and i think she already knows that..but she still didn't deserve what happened to her...

i guess you and i will just have to agree to disagree....

JC

Quoting Anonymous:

She won't though (get him incarcerated) because she looooooooves this guy.

She is crying rape because she feels like a whore for cheating on her husband with her ex who she slept with in her LAST marriage.

She purposefully contacted him again, texted him about cuddling, she has stated days earlier that she WANTS to be with him, that she LOVES him and he loves her and wants her and misses her.......now she's just trying to put a different spin on this and make herself out to be the clueless idiot victim.

NO rational woman EVER invites an ex over, around midnight, to their home, with their children there, with NO husband at home (at work convieniently), texts him about cuddling, and doesn't even think that this guy might want what they used to have?

Sorry.

She's one of those stupid women who sets it all up, gets what she wants, then feels shitty later and tries to blame everyone and everything but herself that THEY did it all bad to her ..... and she just wanted to chit chat with her ex-fuckbuddy, who says he loves her and misses her and will do anything to win her back, at midnight, in her home, with no husband around. Gee, what is wrong with that? Doesn't every gal do this with their ex?

Sorry.

No RATIONAL woman who wants to make sure her mind, body and family are protected would pull such an idiotic stunt.

Quoting Jcothrine:

let me be clear..even though you invited him over ...you in no way deserved what happened to you...

yes your dh might be mad that you let an ex over...but do you really want to leave that door open that he might come back and do that again? (your ex?)

don't leave that door open...get a restraining order on him.. i think..unfortunately..that you would have a hard time proving rape happened (as it seems like victims are judged more than rapists)..but that doesn't mean you have to lie there and take it....

JC

[Anonymous]

yea id fuck my ex too given the opportunity. and if he wanted to eat my pussy, id most definately let him! he ate pussy like no other. id cum everytime that tongue was on my clit! shit, im going to masterbate now.

[admf]

I have a shotgun by front door should i ever see my ex in my yard.

[bellygirl]

You knew you were going to have sex w/him when you invited him over. Who in the hell invites their ex-husband over to cuddle while married to and pregnant by someone else. You were flirting and teasing and got exactly what you wanted. You are disgusting and very immature; arecyouvdure you should be having kids? So you were screwing around w/another man while your son was awake? Where was your husband?. You should feel like a piece of shut, however, I doubt you really so, as you've cheated before. You are a cheater. You had sex w/another man, while pregnant w/someone else's child. No sympathy here. How would you feel if your husband cheated on you?

[bellygirl]

Quoting Anonymous:

You're behaving like a troll, so wish granted!

[ToolArmy066]

I can't make it clicky. http://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/150463.php
You can get pregnant by 2 guys at the same time, it's rare but it can happen.

[Anonymous]

TMI.. good luck with that... e_e Not to be too, too judgemental, but you should see a therapist or clergy-person. "Go and sin no more" as in pick up the pieces and live better--move on and live and learn.

[MannaBoo]

Skank.