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I won't let ds7 see any of his paternal family. Ask me anything.

Anonymous
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He used to be close to his grandmother.  

He had a grandmother, aunt, grandfather and of course a father he saw every other weekend.

Now he mourns them as he cannot see them at all.

Ask me anything.



(another post condemned mothers in this situation, thought I'd share my side of things)

Posted by Anonymous on Feb. 27, 2013 at 10:15 AM
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sugareemommee
by Ruby Member on Feb. 27, 2013 at 10:15 AM
Why? Duh.
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Feb. 27, 2013 at 10:16 AM

why?.

 

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Feb. 27, 2013 at 10:17 AM

My son saud he didn't feel safe.


Quoting sugareemommee:

Why? Duh.



mlg1989
by ZombieMegg on Feb. 27, 2013 at 10:17 AM
For what reasons?
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renner450
by on Feb. 27, 2013 at 10:17 AM
Explain?
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Feb. 27, 2013 at 10:18 AM


so many reasons, but the straw that broke the camels back was my son saying he didnt feel safe with dad.

Quoting Anonymous:

why?.




Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Feb. 27, 2013 at 10:18 AM
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If he didn't feel safe why does he "mourn" that he cant see them, then?

Quoting Anonymous:

My son saud he didn't feel safe.



Quoting sugareemommee:

Why? Duh.




Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Feb. 27, 2013 at 10:19 AM

he stopped seeing dad because dad yelled constantly, was erratic, had an obvious mental issue.  Would engage in risky or strange behaviour, was threatening and aggressive with everyone around him and got into screaming matches with the rest of the family.


Quoting mlg1989:

For what reasons?



Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Feb. 27, 2013 at 10:19 AM

 


Quoting Anonymous:

 

so many reasons, but the straw that broke the camels back was my son saying he didnt feel safe with dad.

Quoting Anonymous:

why?.

 

 

 

those exact words came out of your 7 year olds mouth? are you sure you didn't help put them there?


 

 

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Feb. 27, 2013 at 10:20 AM
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he's a 7 year old child.  Ask any abuse survivor or social worker a child will grieve when their parents are taken away regardless of how shitty the parent is.

Quoting Anonymous:

If he didn't feel safe why does he "mourn" that he cant see them, then?

Quoting Anonymous:

My son saud he didn't feel safe.



Quoting sugareemommee:

Why? Duh.






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