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I won't let ds7 see any of his paternal family. Ask me anything.

Posted by Anonymous   + Show Post

He used to be close to his grandmother.  

He had a grandmother, aunt, grandfather and of course a father he saw every other weekend.

Now he mourns them as he cannot see them at all.

Ask me anything.



(another post condemned mothers in this situation, thought I'd share my side of things)

Posted by Anonymous on Feb. 27, 2013 at 10:15 AM
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KreatingMe
by Silver Member on Feb. 27, 2013 at 10:42 AM


Quoting Anonymous:




Quoting mlg1989:

For what reasons?



so why take away his grandma? aunts? and grandpa?

and in a court of law those reasons wouldn't hold up as reason to strip a kid from seeing his father.


And that's sad. How tragic that the piss poor parents rights are more important than the child's protection and well being. 

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Feb. 27, 2013 at 10:43 AM


the aunt and the grandfather had no interest, which is so strange.  They were there for each weekend.  I dont get that.

The grandmother however is very overbearing so it may have to do with that.

The grandmother sigh...

SHe was told after dad lost all access, SHE could still see ds.  She had up to that point been basically co-operative with court orders and CAS.  She was told she could take DS for a day (amount of time was never settled on) but dad could not be there.  SHe refused.  She said she couldn't tell her son no. I will never understasnd it.  But I do think she is the reason her son is no messed up.

As it stands, she is still able to visit ds if she chooses to.  She has not called or contacted me or CAS.

Quoting mlg1989:

And so his actions made it so NO one can see him? Why don't you just have visits with you there do the rest of the family can see him?


Quoting Anonymous:

he stopped seeing dad because dad yelled constantly, was erratic, had an obvious mental issue.  Would engage in risky or strange behaviour, was threatening and aggressive with everyone around him and got into screaming matches with the rest of the family.



Quoting mlg1989:

For what reasons?







Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Feb. 27, 2013 at 10:43 AM


Think what you like.  I have no reason to lie under anon, on the internet, to people I dont know.

Quoting Anonymous:



Quoting Anonymous:


i didn't.  It was christmas day, his father came to pick him up.  I told his dad (pretty cheerfully actually, it was christmas) just have a seat (I have a bench just inside my door) Z will be along in just a few minutes.  His dad flew off the handle unexpectedly, started screaming profanities calling me names and then back handed me hard enough to make me fall down.  He ran back into his car sitting in my driveway.  My son ran into his room.  I got up, went to check on ds.  He sobbed and told me "I don't want to go! I don't feel safe when he's around."


Quoting Anonymous:



Quoting Anonymous:


so many reasons, but the straw that broke the camels back was my son saying he didnt feel safe with dad.

Quoting Anonymous:

why?.




those exact words came out of your 7 year olds mouth? are you sure you didn't help put them there?


 




you're so cute adding to the story to make him seem like a evil jerk.

i think you're a liar. I also think if you keep your kid away its because you're on some power trip. had those thigns actually occured you would have said them straight up instead of waiting and adding to the story as you go.

I hope he goes and fights you for him and i will laugh if YOU lose custody. parental alienation. Look it up.




Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Feb. 27, 2013 at 10:44 AM

they've done loits of shit to me, but it doesn't effect ds, so it doesn;t matter.  I did answer this a few times already.


Quoting Anonymous:

ok we get it dad is a asshole

but what about grandma and grandpa? what the fuck did they do to you? i mean him.



Anonymous
by Anonymous on Feb. 27, 2013 at 10:50 AM

yelling and screaming at YOu is not abusive to YOUR child.

You are NOT your child.

Separate the two of you.

i don't think him yelling at you is abusive of your kid.

at 7 the cord has been fucking cut.

 

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Feb. 27, 2013 at 10:54 AM

It wasn't just at me love.  

Quoting Anonymous:

yelling and screaming at YOu is not abusive to YOUR child.

You are NOT your child.

Separate the two of you.

i don't think him yelling at you is abusive of your kid.

at 7 the cord has been fucking cut.




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