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The first time you got pregnant...Update

Posted by on Feb. 27, 2013 at 4:59 PM
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Poll

Question: With your VERY FIRST pregnancy was your VERY FIRST reaction more of a "YAY!!!" (10 on the excitement sacle) or an "oh fuck!!!!" (1 on the excitement scale)

Options:

10--Yay

9

8

7

6

5--meh

4

3

2--"shit, now what?"

1--"OH FUCK!!!"


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Total Votes: 747

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planned? unplanned? IVF? Married? engaged? single? younger? older?

 UPDATE: it is interesting to me that after almost 600 votes the "oh shit" and "oh fuck" (1 and 2) categories are exactly tied with the YAY! (9 and 10).

Just nosey today :-)

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by on Feb. 27, 2013 at 4:59 PM
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Alliemad_3
by on Feb. 27, 2013 at 5:01 PM
Planned but unexpected. We were only a month out from a miscarriage and didnt expect it to happen so soon. We were over the moon but scared.
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mcginnisc
by Platinum Member on Feb. 27, 2013 at 5:01 PM
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Considering it took 7 years and Clomid to get pregnant the first time, it was pure joy. We were elated until at 36 weeks our dd was stillborn. 

Our middle dd was planned as she was adopted from China and our third was complete shock after our history. 

Claire


" I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me." Phillipians 4:13 

tarakay0417
by on Feb. 27, 2013 at 5:01 PM
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Unplanned. I was 19 and trying to join the Army. My bf left me soon after I told him. But I love my ds and wouldn't change being his mother for anything in this world.
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Mamitamaria
by Silver Member on Feb. 27, 2013 at 5:01 PM

The first time I got pregnant I was a very stupid 14 year old. DEFINITELY an "oh fuck!! What will my mom say?" situation.  Her response was to basically force me to have an abortion.

olliesmommy2
by Metal Awareness on Feb. 27, 2013 at 5:02 PM
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Sad that 50% is oh fuck. I'm sure all of those were failed bc though.
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TheMrs407
by Emerald Member on Feb. 27, 2013 at 5:02 PM
Planned, married, 26
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KayelynnsMama
by Gold Member on Feb. 27, 2013 at 5:02 PM

7. Unplanned. Engaged. I was only 18.

Anonymous
by Anonymous on Feb. 27, 2013 at 5:03 PM

Yayy!! We had been trying for about a year, I was freaking relieved lol!!

Mamitamaria
by Silver Member on Feb. 27, 2013 at 5:03 PM

 

I was asking about the first pregnancy not the first child :-)

Quoting Alliemad_3:

Planned but unexpected. We were only a month out from a miscarriage and didnt expect it to happen so soon. We were over the moon but scared.


 

Mommy2AlexAraya
by Bronze Member on Feb. 27, 2013 at 5:03 PM

I was 17 and it was completely unplanned!

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