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You never got married? If your spouse never asked you to marry them do you think you could have stayed? Or would you have left? Was your love deep enough that you could have been with them without the ring, marriage and union that comes with all of that?
Let me edit this now for the defensive ones. I assure you (as I did 2 others) that I did not post anything to be disrespectful. What I meant in saying what I did above is could you have loved the man you are married to now with out the title of being his wife. If the bond that you share with your spouse would have been enough to stay with them with out the benefits that marriage offered. That is all. No need to be disrespectful or get defensive.
Okay since I am so offensive or whatever (I do apologize for that) I am going to post this the exact same way that an anon posted it in the replies:
"Would you be with your husband if he never offered marriage? What does marriage mean to you and how would not having it offered change where you are in life?"