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For women who have miscarried

Posted by

SoInLove515

on Feb. 28, 2013 at 3:14 AM

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I miscarried 6 years ago. I don't think of it alot anymore. I thought I was healed. But tonite I just started to think about for some reason and I am crying so hard. I just wish he or she was here. I hope to one day hold my beautiful angel. Do you ever just break down...even though it may have happened long ago?

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SoInLove515

Silver Member on Feb. 28, 2013 at 3:17 AM

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by Anonymous on Feb. 28, 2013 at 3:17 AM

Yes, I had 7 miscarriages in a few years before I got pregnant with ds... And it kills me... Dh doesn't understand why I cry about it randomly...

SoInLove515

Silver Member on Feb. 28, 2013 at 3:20 AM

I am so sorry. I can't imagine going thru it 7 times. Men just don't understand. It bothers me that my dh never even talks about it. Like he doesn't even think about our baby.

Quoting Anonymous:

Yes, I had 7 miscarriages in a few years before I got pregnant with ds... And it kills me... Dh doesn't understand why I cry about it randomly...

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hunnybunny2001

Silver Member on Feb. 28, 2013 at 3:23 AM

:-( I have also miscarried. I think about him sometimes also. I'm sorry for your loss

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by Anonymous on Feb. 28, 2013 at 3:24 AM

It was because of my thyroid the doctors think... So we got that fixed up and I had an amazing ds!

Quoting SoInLove515:

I am so sorry. I can't imagine going thru it 7 times. Men just don't understand. It bothers me that my dh never even talks about it. Like he doesn't even think about our baby.

Quoting Anonymous:

Yes, I had 7 miscarriages in a few years before I got pregnant with ds... And it kills me... Dh doesn't understand why I cry about it randomly...

by Anonymous on Feb. 28, 2013 at 3:24 AM

This sounds just like me. I am at peace with it, but there have been just those out of the blue times where it gets to me. I have had two. What's bad is I was pretty numb with the second one. Even for the year after, then one night BAM. I squaled my eyes out like crazy, and have cried since them sometimes as well.

momalee40

on Feb. 28, 2013 at 3:26 AM

I had one, about 18 yrs ago. I have been lucky to carry 2 babies since then but it was really strange when i met my dh and found out his son's middle name is the name i gave the baby i lost. I still wonder what he or she would have been like.

by Anonymous on Feb. 28, 2013 at 3:26 AM

What's wrong with yours? Mine is bad too, and I have had 2 miscarriages out of three, and have not gotten pregnant in three years since the last.

Quoting Anonymous:

It was because of my thyroid the doctors think... So we got that fixed up and I had an amazing ds!

Quoting SoInLove515:

I am so sorry. I can't imagine going thru it 7 times. Men just don't understand. It bothers me that my dh never even talks about it. Like he doesn't even think about our baby.

Quoting Anonymous:

Yes, I had 7 miscarriages in a few years before I got pregnant with ds... And it kills me... Dh doesn't understand why I cry about it randomly...

by Anonymous on Feb. 28, 2013 at 3:29 AM

It's pretty much just taking up space... Super under active!

Quoting Anonymous:

What's wrong with yours? Mine is bad too, and I have had 2 miscarriages out of three, and have not gotten pregnant in three years since the last.
Quoting Anonymous:

It was because of my thyroid the doctors think... So we got that fixed up and I had an amazing ds!

Quoting SoInLove515:

I am so sorry. I can't imagine going thru it 7 times. Men just don't understand. It bothers me that my dh never even talks about it. Like he doesn't even think about our baby.

Quoting Anonymous:

Yes, I had 7 miscarriages in a few years before I got pregnant with ds... And it kills me... Dh doesn't understand why I cry about it randomly...

Loving19mommy92

Bronze Member on Feb. 28, 2013 at 3:31 AM

Yes, I had two back to back and every time I ovulate I back out of ttc and just cry for days. It's almost been three months and I am still so heartbroken.