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If this happend.

Posted by on Feb. 28, 2013 at 2:12 PM
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Say tomorrow something happens to you. YOu become unable physically to have sex in ANY form.
You're completely paralyzed from the neck down.


Would you expect your spouse to remain celibate for the rest of your life? Considering you can feasibly live for a VERY long time..as in decades..in that condition..would you expect that of him?

If the situation were reversed..would you expect that of yourself? Would HE expect celibacy of you?

Discuss.

by on Feb. 28, 2013 at 2:12 PM
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brebugmom91
by on Feb. 28, 2013 at 2:13 PM
No. Id tell him to move on.

He'd tell me the same.
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wkukid
by Beach Bum on Feb. 28, 2013 at 2:13 PM
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Eh sex isn't that important to us,I don't think it would be a problem.

DahliaDoxy
by on Feb. 28, 2013 at 2:14 PM
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Just because I am paralyzed doesn't mean he can't have some creepy human blow up doll sex with me. 

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 on Feb. 28, 2013 at 2:15 PM
Hard to say. If I can't have and enjoy sex, why should he?
Honestly, in a case like that, I just want to be put out of my misery. I have enough problems with feeling trapped in my head. I wouldn't want to be physically crippled like that.
KylesMonkey
by Member on Feb. 28, 2013 at 2:16 PM
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just because you can't feel it, doesn't mean he can't enjoy your body anymore...  And you guys could have oral. BUT, I've never known anyone that was a quadroplegic, nor do I have any experience with the subject.  I would want me partner to be faithful to me, though.  I would be to him.  Even if it meant we went through a LOT of batteries.

missamanda86
by Silver Member on Feb. 28, 2013 at 2:16 PM
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Um yes....when we got married I am PRETTY sure my wedding vows said 'for better or worse until death do us part' and that would be filed under the 'worse' category

blueeyegirl1987
by on Feb. 28, 2013 at 2:18 PM
Quoting DahliaDoxy:

Just because I am paralyzed doesn't mean he can't have some creepy human blow up doll sex with me. 


lmao!!!!
Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Feb. 28, 2013 at 2:18 PM
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I'd do it for him, it would be nice if he loved me enough to do the same.

bmw29
by spitfire_bobbie on Feb. 28, 2013 at 2:19 PM

Yes all the way around and both of us are good with that.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Feb. 28, 2013 at 2:21 PM

Well actually he could still have sex if I was paralyzed it would be kind of creepy but technically he could so your example isn't very good.  To answer your question though we didn't marry just for sex so he would stay even if I told him to go!

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