When I got pregnant with DD1, my mom was so excited. When DD1 was 4 months old, my mom moved out of the country to get married.
When I got pregnant with DD2, DH and I had been TTC for 16 months and were thrilled to be having another baby. I told my mom and the stuff she told me was "Well, don't get too excited. Miscarriages run in our family" (I have no PERSONAL history of miscarriage so wtf?), and "I wouldn't wish more than one child on anyone", and "Are you sure this is what you want?"
DD2 is celebrating her 1st birthday yesterday/today (Leap Day baby), and while she sent a present, what I really wanted was a phone call or something. I guess she thinks we want physical stuff, but that's not it at all. Hell, she's never even MET DD2.
Between all that, and DH and I considering a third and last, I'm just so annoyed with my mom. I mentioned to her recently that we thought about having one more and she got really quiet. WTF is so wrong with 2-3 kids?! I really dislike my mom right now.