He is choosing that fat b**** over his kids and thats fine *edited*
Me and my ex were married for 23 years.
After years and years of dealing with his bi-polar ass, I had an affair. Yes I know I was wrong but its in the past, so moving on.
I finally filed for divorce a year and two months ago and it was finally finalized about a month ago. Since I had him move out, he has the girls every other weekend. Lately he has been coming up with excuse after excuse not to have them. I will admit that they are difficult at times but he doesnt help at all. He will get in your face and scream and holler. He lives on the thrill of intimidating people.
they spend the minimum time with him. I havent filed for child support yet. I am THIS close to filing though. I dont even want him around them anymore.
But about the woman I am talking about in my title. Late last year he got his live in girlfriend pregnant. It made me a bit angry that he was so irresponsible. He knows he has issues and yet spawned another innocent child.
This evening he sent me a text and when you read it you will probably agree it sounds like something a woman would say. It said:
"Look S is coming with me to get the girls tonight. You just need to get used to her being in the picture."
I just felt like that was so rude. This evening she was there when we exchanged the girls. SHe just had an attitude. I feel so disrespected. I fucking hate him.
I wanted to add a little more, Mostly concerning his mental state. I dealt with his swings for years. I tried to stay until the kids were 18, but I just couldnt. It is not easy living with a bipolasr individual. He would belittle me and tell me I was stupid and for some reason I started to believe it.
When he is in his "good mood" he will ask my daughter things like "would it be wrong of me to ask S to move out although she is pregnant?" They are 14 and 12- who in the hell asks a CHILD a question like that?! He will text me that he loves me and always will. When I dont respond I get a text that says "oh well fuck you., you cant even respond to a nice text. Make sure you carry some condoms you whore."
He is constantly on a roller coaster with his emotions and my kidsa re starting to be involved more and more.