Called me from the ER last night begging me to come pick her up. It was 2am I haven't seen her in 5months she doesn't want me to tell her dad or anything. She lives 5 hrs away and wanted to live with her mom about 6 months ago before that she lived with us from age 3 now she is 16 almost 17. I asked her what was wrong she refused to tell me. I told her I'd have to tell her dad where I was going if i left at 2am. She didnt want that. She said there is a social worker asking her questions. After speaking with the social worker i found out that sd only wanted to call me and they were willing to hold her until I could come get her. She wouldn't tell me why sd was there in the first place. I took the day off work but didn't tell dh. I got to the ER and there she was pregnant belly and all. She begged to come home. Normally I'd say no but considering i was a teen mom I said fine but shed have to tell her dad. We talked all the way home. She wouldn't tell me who the father was or let me call her mom. I told her that dh would be upset at first but hed understand. I got her a hotel room so i could figure out how to tell her dad. I'm at a loss. He's going to be upset no one told us she was pregnant and we ve talked to sd a few times a week for these past 6m. I thought our relationship was getting better. How do i tell my husband? He's also going to be a little upset that I didn't tell him I was doing this today but I'm sure that will get over looked once he sees her belly. Bm hasnt called sd, me or dh either. Im just soo lost sd won't tell me anything she actually looks scared. Which is why i got the hotel room. She didnt want anyone to know and we both needed too think.