So does anyone else actually have a good relationship with their SO/DH?
We look at our friends insane relationships, and just look at each other and say thank you. Then I read the posts on here about everyone cheating, or going through each other's things to see if someone's cheating, or never being home, or whatever else you have going on and I think to myself that I am apparently the oddity.
I love my DH and I'm confident that he loves me too. I can't imagine being in a relationship with someone that I couldn't trust, or someone that couldn't trust me. I like to think that I wouldn't put up with being called fat or ugly, and I believe that if either of us couldn't stand spending time together we wouldn't stay together.
Do you remember why you decided to breed with the guy? Maybe you should take a step back and actually think about what he means to you. Ask him to do the same. Remember why you're important to each other, why you want to be partners in life. Think about what it actually means to be partners. Go back to dating each other and actually TALKING to each other. Spend some time together goofing around, and some serious time together bearing your hearts and souls to each other. If you have issues in your relationship get some marriage counselling, there is NOTHING wrong with getting help fixing your problems. You need to fix your problems before your kids grow up thinking that unhealthy relationships are normal, and it's perfectly acceptable for husbands to call their wives names and not come home at night, or for wives to act like lunatics and sleep around.
I can't possibly be the only one in a happy relationship, at least I really hope I'm not.