I told dh last night that I really wanted a touch screen navigation system like on his car (he got a new car yesterday which is where this whole thing came up). So we go to look today and the vans with the screen are about $6000 more than one without. Dh asked what I wanted so I told him I wanted the screen. Because of that, there was no way to get a new van right now. I was fine with that, not really sure I wanted the increased payment anyway. Dh is upset because he said I took a stand on wanting the screen which made getting a new van impossible. We "may" have been able to work out a reasonable deal for the other van which would have still offered hands free phone and controls on the steering wheel for the phone, just no touch screen. I have an iPhone with GPS so I don't "need" the nav system but it would be much easier and safer (IMO) than trying to look at the phone for directions. Dh says I was being immature and was wrong for standing firm about the screen. I don't know that I agree. As I told him, if I needed a new vehicle I wouldn't mind "settling" but since my current van is perfectly fine and the question was what did I want, I don't see how I'm wrong. So what do you ladies think?