If your dh withheld sex due to ongoing marital problems, WWYD??
I am really frustrated and feel like I just don't know how to handle this!! My marriage has been rocky for quite a few years now due to several complicated factors. I have had discussions with my dh about our issues and we can't seem to have a meeting of minds. He has his heels dug in the ground and is not trying to understand my position. The past few years have been terrible for us sexually. My dh has alot of work stress and he has been very moody. I am trying to work with him to deal with our issues, but I feel like I am spinning my wheels. I ALWAYS have to initiate affection and sex!!! We are in our early forties and our sex life has dwindled to once a month or even longer at times. Tonight, I came to him for sex and he flat out rejected me. It hurts and I told him that. Our day was fine.......no fighting or anything, up until I came onto him and he told me no. This has happened in the past. We had a very heated discussion and I am at my wit's end with his negativity, and withholding. What would you do to try and make things better or would you throw in the towel?