My dilemma is my mom always talks about how much she wants to take my son over night or for the day etc. she constantly talks about doing all these things with him. Now she does take him over night on a semi regular basis but when she does she always complains. "Oh he didn't sleep", "he's being cranky" she also will phone me and tell me she's doing something the next day and I need to pick him up when she knows I have work. It seems whenever she does have him she's complaining but whenever she doesn't have him she's saying how much she wants to see him.
For this reason I haven't let her take him in a few weeks. Am I being a jerk for this annoying me so much? I feel super selfish because she's taking him for me. I make it clear before hand that I'm going to drop him off at this time and pick him up at this time and I even ask if that's okay. Also a lot if the time she makes my sister watch him so she can go out on a date or go on the computer. I don't know it just frustrates me. Am I being nit picky or would it frustrate you too?