church is "forcing" me to an abortion
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on Mar. 3, 2013 at 11:34 AM
Not to mention there have to be plenty of places to have a "nice wedding"...I'm having a hard time believing this could seriously be "for real"...unbelieveable...wow...
Quoting sandra_t00:
That is fucked up. Are you sure an abortion is what you want? Just so you can have a nice wedding?

by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster
on Mar. 3, 2013 at 11:35 AM
they are not telling us to abort...but if we do and don't tell them then we can move forward with our plans...if we don't then we can't.
Quoting GELiz:Well, this is counter intuitive. Go to a justice of peace and forget a church that wants you to get an abortion. Though I wonder if you are just accusing them of that since they won't perform the wedding if you are pregnant- not tellling you to get an abortion. They have a right to decide that if they want to and you whould go to another church. theya re not the only ones that performs weddings.
go a different route.

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on Mar. 3, 2013 at 11:35 AM
Omg did you go to my x-church? Lol see my dh and I were married through court in 2006. But plan to have a church wedding & reception on 2007. Found out I was pregnant early 2007.
They kicked me out of the choir. And decided that they wouldnt marry us.
I left and found another church. Plus I still had my church wedding and reception.
They kicked me out of the choir. And decided that they wouldnt marry us.
I left and found another church. Plus I still had my church wedding and reception.
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on Mar. 3, 2013 at 11:35 AM
What church is that? My brother married his wife in the catholic church when she was pregnant.
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Navy Mom on Mar. 3, 2013 at 11:34 AMForget the church for a moment. Deposits are paid, but you can have a JP wedding, get married in an Episcopal or Methodist church while pregnant, and still have the reception. Your dress can be altered to fit the belly, or you can get a different dress. This is not a big deal. The BIG deal is whether YOU and YOUR FI are ready to become parents so soon after marrying.
Good luck honey.