He doesnt try hard enough imo to see his kid, sure bm likes keeping their son from bf but still he could do more! Nobody could keep me from my baby, it's started to grow into resentment. I cant stand being around him without thinking about how he should be trying to call his kid or call someone in bm's family to check on the kid.
He's great around my dd and his son when he sees him but for bf it seems to be out of sight out of mind.
I thought I loved him and wanted a life but I refuse to be with a fucking deadbeat who couldnt care less to check on his child every now and then. He's full of excuses always making it bms fault!