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My bf is a terrible father.

Anonymous
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We have no kids together. I have one he has one.

He doesnt try hard enough imo to see his kid, sure bm likes keeping their son from bf but still he could do more! Nobody could keep me from my baby, it's started to grow into resentment. I cant stand being around him without thinking about how he should be trying to call his kid or call someone in bm's family to check on the kid.

He's great around my dd and his son when he sees him but for bf it seems to be out of sight out of mind.

I thought I loved him and wanted a life but I refuse to be with a fucking deadbeat who couldnt care less to check on his child every now and then. He's full of excuses always making it bms fault!

Uuuugggh
Posted by Anonymous on Mar. 3, 2013 at 3:20 PM
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anyotherday
by Ruby Member on Mar. 3, 2013 at 3:21 PM
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then dump him

that would be a huge dealbreaker for me

mom2acutiepie
by Silver Member on Mar. 3, 2013 at 3:22 PM
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So why is he still your boyfriend?

anotherhalf
by on Mar. 3, 2013 at 3:23 PM

I wouldn't waste one more second on him - except to tell him we're through.




Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Mar. 3, 2013 at 3:24 PM
I wonder if that's how my ex's gf feels.. probably not because she is a home wrecker! But I never said or tried to take our kids from him. He just chose since being with her he doesnt want to take any part in them! I'd feel the way you do. Deal breaker for me, for sure!
Bethbeth
by Silver Member on Mar. 3, 2013 at 3:24 PM

 so why are you with him?

Cmgmqmmom
by Ruby Member on Mar. 3, 2013 at 3:24 PM

Sounds like a loser. Please do yourself a favor a dump him now before you inevitably get pregnant and then he has two birth children to be a bad father to.

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Mar. 3, 2013 at 3:25 PM
Idk hoping for a change I guess.

He's great with his son when he does have him but doesnt show enough interest in getting time with his son as frequently as I think he should


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So why is he still your boyfriend?


Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Mar. 3, 2013 at 3:26 PM
He is a waste of time. My husband had a daughter when we met and he was and is an amazing father. I have told him again and again that I would not have stayed with him had he been a shitty one.
Snapdragon88
by Platinum Member on Mar. 3, 2013 at 3:27 PM
Time to move on... and you should tell him why. He needs to hear it.
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mcclainprincess
by on Mar. 3, 2013 at 3:28 PM
Run. If he doesn't care about his own child what makes you think he can care about you and yours??

Unfortunately, i have been in your position.. Couldn't do it. Thank goodness I'm no longer with that piece of trash.
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