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Am I the only one...? (cheating Dh's)

Posted by on Mar. 3, 2013 at 8:33 PM
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Question: Would you leave if your Dh cheated on you once?

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No

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Who wouldn't leave their Dh if they found out he was cheating?

I believe that when something is broken, you fix it, not throw it away. When my Dh and I got married we both said that divorce is not an option, it doesn't exist. I honestly don't know how much cheating it would take to break that promise for me, but I know that I would absolutely NOT leave if he cheated once.

by on Mar. 3, 2013 at 8:33 PM
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LiesLiesLies
by Platinum Member on Mar. 3, 2013 at 8:34 PM
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He threw you away when he decided to cheat sweetie.
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Blueliner
by Platinum Member on Mar. 3, 2013 at 8:35 PM
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I can't say for sure one way or another what I'd do, I've never been in that position and hope I never am, but until you're in that postiion can you really say for sure how you'd handle it? I can't.

LAXmom21
by Ruby Member on Mar. 3, 2013 at 8:35 PM
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Once a cheater always a cheater.
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jillbailey26
by on Mar. 3, 2013 at 8:36 PM
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That's one of the two things that isn't fixable to me.  I wouldn't be able to sleep with him and I wouldn't be able to trust him.


"Let us therefore make every effort to do what leads to peace and to mutual edification"  Romans 14:19

Grumpylilpixy
by on Mar. 3, 2013 at 8:36 PM
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The bible even says if it cheated you can throw it away. 

Anonymous
by Anonymous on Mar. 3, 2013 at 8:36 PM
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My dh and I both agreed that infidelity is an immediate deal breaker before walking down the isle. We both agree that the trust will forever be gone and that it's basically an automatic sign that the cheater doesn't love or respect the other person at all.

ibelieveinpink
by Platinum Member on Mar. 3, 2013 at 8:36 PM
No, I wouldn't.
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Anonymous
by Anonymous on Mar. 3, 2013 at 8:36 PM

I owe him one.

SadeAyosmom
by on Mar. 3, 2013 at 8:37 PM
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if he is cheating i think its dead. not broken. dead.

i would leave.

abigailsmommy11
by Silver Member on Mar. 3, 2013 at 8:37 PM

He hasn't cheated, this is a "what if" scenario.


Quoting LiesLiesLies:

He threw you away when he decided to cheat sweetie.



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