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Found this FB message

Anonymous
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Found this FB message from my dh to a girl. The message was from years before we met, but the content disturbs me.

"Name, I never meant to hurt anyone. She seemed to be asking me for it and she defiantly acted like she enjoyed it."



*ETA, What would you think if you found this out about your husband, brother, friend? Thoughts?

*dh works out of town. I sent him an email with the screenshot of the fb message asking him to explain. He has yet to respond, probably still sleeping.
Posted by Anonymous on Mar. 3, 2013 at 9:06 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Mar. 3, 2013 at 9:07 PM
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Thoughts? That he had sex with someone who now says that he raped her. Whether or not he actually did I can't say.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Mar. 3, 2013 at 9:08 PM
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i wouldnt think anything and why should he have to explain something that occured years before you..."shrugs"

Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Mar. 3, 2013 at 9:08 PM

 

Whoa...yeah...this...

Quoting Anonymous:

Thoughts? That he had sex with someone who now says that he raped her. Whether or not he actually did I can't say.


 

3gr8tKids
by Gold Member on Mar. 3, 2013 at 9:12 PM
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I cannot stand people who go through another persons things. If I were him I'
d be furious. I wouldn't explain anything to you.
LiesLiesLies
by Platinum Member on Mar. 3, 2013 at 9:13 PM
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This isn't a 1 night stand. This is a potential RAPE!


Quoting Anonymous:

i wouldnt think anything and why should he have to explain something that occured years before you..."shrugs"


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by Anonymous 5 on Mar. 3, 2013 at 9:16 PM

Just out of curiosity, if this turns out to be the worst possible explanation you can think of, do you really think he would tell you the truth?  What are the chances of him just coming out after all these years and telling you the honest truth?  Just saying, because he has never told you about it before. 

lucky2Beeme
by Ruby Member on Mar. 3, 2013 at 9:19 PM
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WHY did you do that ? its from before you met. Stop looking for trouble momma.

Love how people jump the the conclusion he may have raped someone CHESUS !

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Mar. 3, 2013 at 9:19 PM
Actually, his XW accused him of raping her. He told me about it, his version, after dating a month. He was the one who brought it up.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 6 on Mar. 3, 2013 at 9:55 PM

updateee

BEXi
by BEXi on Mar. 3, 2013 at 9:56 PM
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YEARS before you met? How long has that been, considering FB has only been around for a few years as it is?

 

ETA* JFC people, I thought it was only 5 years, not 9. Stop quoting me now lol

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