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Tell me why a ten your old needs a cell phone

Posted by on Mar. 4, 2013 at 11:28 AM
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I am debating on getting my 10 year old a pre-paid phone. She earns an allowence from me and other people for work she does and really wants to get one. I was thinking a very simple, cheap phone with a pre-paid plan.

I am just having a hard time coming up with reasons she needs one. If your 10 year old has one, why? I need convincing it is a good thing to get her.

ETA:

I would be especially interested in hearing from moms that DO allow thier children around this age to have a cell phone and/or DO have children this age as I was always anti-cell until she was 16 as well, but now, I see it as not such a big deal and can see some pros.

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EvilAsh
by Platinum Member on Mar. 4, 2013 at 11:28 AM
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Mine won't have a phone until they can buy it and pay for it themselves.

Anonymous
by Anonymous on Mar. 4, 2013 at 11:30 AM

if theres no real safety reason, then don't get her one...she will expect upgrades as time marches on, or expect other technology to keep up with her peers

ashley9603
by RunningMomma on Mar. 4, 2013 at 11:31 AM

I dont see the need for it at that age.

bcoll
by Brandi on Mar. 4, 2013 at 11:32 AM
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Because that was the year that they started middle school and wanted to walk. It was also helpful when they wanted to stay after or go home with friends. The environment was a little too "big" for me. I wanted to be in touch.
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aka_speezolove
by Silver Member on Mar. 4, 2013 at 11:33 AM


Quoting EvilAsh:

Mine won't have a phone until they can buy it and pay for it themselves.

That's just it..she will be buying it and paying for most of it herself. She is very good with money. This kid saved for a kindle for several months. She wants a cheaper phone with pre-paid minutes on it. I told her if she bought the phone and paid for half her minutes she wanted, I would pay the other half. The plan she wants is $25/month and would give her plenty of minutes.

CeeGee81
by CanadaGirl on Mar. 4, 2013 at 11:33 AM

I don't think a 10 yr old needs a phone.  My son won't have a cell phone until he's old enough to have a part time job and pay for it himself.

KairisMama
by Ruby Member on Mar. 4, 2013 at 11:33 AM

 If my DD is walking to friends houses, or to and from school, etc when she's older, she'll have a cell phone.

Anonymous
by Anonymous on Mar. 4, 2013 at 11:34 AM

Sorry I can't help to convince you.  I wouldn't get one unless there was a good reason for doing so.

Crazy-Steph
by Platinum Member on Mar. 4, 2013 at 11:34 AM

I don't have a good reason - but I LOVE your new avi!

BEXi
by BEXi on Mar. 4, 2013 at 11:34 AM

I would get my sons one at that age. Although I wouldnt do prepaid because they can get really expensive after awhile. You can also have more access to parental functions and actually SEE what your child is doing when you go with an actual service provider.

I would want them to have one for emergencies.

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