We found out that her baby daddy is this 21 year old thug. He has a criminal record. She still wants to keep the baby even though she knows that the father more than likely will not be in the baby's life. We took her to her pediatrician today to get a referral to an obgyn and her grandma kept making comments like "I sure hope you're not 4 months because there is a clinic in Atlanta that will clip it out." and made a scissor gesture. Dsd looked upset. I asked her why she waited so long to tell anyone she was pregnant and she said that she was afraid someone would force her to have an abortion. I told her that me nor her dad would ever let that happen. I also told her that it was her body, her decision, and she had to live with her consequences. Considering she waited so long abortion is out of the question so her grandmother can GET OVER IT. All i can do is support her and love her. I'm glad she at least has an idea about how much work a baby requires. I just hope that she stays strong and doesn't let the negativity get her down.