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call me a b****, but I need MORE!

Posted by Anonymous   + Show Post
I need to feel like more than just roommates raising kids together. I love him so much, and I know without a doubt he feels the same, but we are like roommates. No affection other than rubbing feet while he watches tv and I play online. No sex. We have opposite sleeping patterns which hurts greatly. We have opposite personalities when we go out and in general. He is a loner and I am super social. I wanna cry....
Posted by Anonymous on Mar. 5, 2013 at 3:59 AM
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by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Mar. 5, 2013 at 4:10 AM
I tried that today. Seriously. He blew me off to go to the store. I sadly told him I was done trying. He promised tonight, and he fell asleep before the kids were even tucked in.


Quoting Anonymous:

Next time you see him, blow off whatever it is you think you need to do and get busy


bi-polarmommy
by on Mar. 5, 2013 at 4:11 AM

 have you tried couples counseling?

does he realize HE needs to try also? it wont work if its just you trying

Quoting Anonymous:

I have read that and I have tried. I have tried giving him a verbal synpsis. I have also talked to him.


Quoting bi-polarmommy:

 talk to him about how you feel, and try the book "The Five Languages of Love" - works great (at least it did for me!)


 

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