Id rather have the father to my child in his/her life than garnish his wages for child support... I wont ever go for child support (I say ever, but as long as I am able to care for her/him) . I feel the fact that he knows he has a child he doesn't support would affect him more in the long run. As long as he doesn't pop in and out, he will be able to see his child WHENEVER he likes!! THIS IS JUST ME THO!!
Any other moms feel the same way???