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Ok so, my boyfriend told me today that he thinks he wants me to get a boob job or a boob lift. After having two children my breasts aren't so perky like normal girls my age. I will just be turning 20 this year in August. I am a little self conscious about my boobs being this way because i DO wanna look nice. But, i don't really want work done. Plus now that he's mentioned it i feel me insecure about it. I don't even want to take my shirt off in front of him. It kind of hurts my feelings even though it probably shouldn't. I don't know. Sorry i just had to get it off my shoulders =/
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by on Mar. 5, 2013 at 11:35 PM
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Lovely2Mommy
by on Mar. 5, 2013 at 11:46 PM
What if i DO get them done and it turns out we don't like it. Especially me? Is it easily re-done?
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Mar. 5, 2013 at 11:47 PM

I had a lift and I'm very happy with it, but it was something I had wanted, my husband had no complaints. Even before having kids mine have never looked how I thought they should and I've always been large chested so with the pregnancies they just became intolerable. Mine had a lot to do with just wanting more of a normal look and they were starting to cause me some pain in my shoulders and back. It's still a surgery and still comes with risks and it's something you should do only if it's something you want done. Just remember that with a lift, if not also doing an implant, you will have some reduction in size.

Tnkmommy
by on Mar. 5, 2013 at 11:48 PM

Don't feel bad. I am 25 and I've always had big boobs, a full DD, and had two boys that breastfed. Let's just say I could hold a rolling pin under my girls. Lol. I am comfy with them and would never get a boob job. Too much pain for something only my hubby and I see.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Mar. 5, 2013 at 11:52 PM
Is he the father of either if your kids? Because that would be really fucked up if he is saying that to you and he's not.
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Lovely2Mommy
by on Mar. 5, 2013 at 11:52 PM
Also, when i was trying to talk to him about
It he said i was too close minded to stuff. And it seemed like we were about to have an argument.
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Lovely2Mommy
by on Mar. 5, 2013 at 11:53 PM
Yes he's their dad
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ms-superwoman
by on Mar. 5, 2013 at 11:55 PM

Get a really good push up bra, get fitted so you know that you have the correct size.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Mar. 5, 2013 at 11:55 PM
Ok, that gives him more of a pass, lol. Do you think you have been showing signs of not being comfortable with yourself and that's why he said it?

Quoting Lovely2Mommy:

Yes he's their dad
horseap
by on Mar. 5, 2013 at 11:57 PM

 Im afraid of not being able to feel my nips! 

Lovely2Mommy
by on Mar. 5, 2013 at 11:59 PM
Well even before i had kids i was a little insecure. I gotten better about it though. I don't know what happened


Quoting Anonymous:

Ok, that gives him more of a pass, lol. Do you think you have been showing signs of not being comfortable with yourself and that's why he said it?



Quoting Lovely2Mommy:

Yes he's their dad

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