My mother in law said she wants to come and visit us and the baby on my husband’s birthday ,so me and my husband stay at home waiting for them(she might come with other family members) until 5 pm that day.At around 2 pm ,I asked my husband what time will his mom come ?Because i need to go to the grocery store, and the store closed very soon every night. He said I don’t know. Fine, I just wait there. Then my husband took a nap until 3:30pm,then take a shower ,I am doing my own things, and still thinking about when will they come?about 4 or 5 pm, my husband go out from the bedroom and tell me he get his mom’s message his mom won’t come because she felt sick and dizzy ,before that she fight with her family members like before,and he said she feel sorry about can not come over.i can understand she feel sick and can not come ,but should she tell us earlier? I ask my husband why she not tell us earlier,he said he think his mom try to call and tell that she is not going to come but he didn’t pick up the phone ,he was sleeping.(I don’t really check my husband’s phone often,but after that I checked his phone,it shows no phone call from his mom in that day) then my husband said he doesn’t want to go to grocery store at night time anyway,so maybe we just go tomorrow. After that,we fight for other things ,then my husband say sorry to me that he haven’t a good mood, because his family is fucked up,his mum didn't sent a text message earlier,also he worry about his jobs,all these thting smake him frustrated.But I still feel uncomfortable and unhappy ,even feel mad,but who should I feel mad to ? when I think about can not go to grocery today and buy what I want ( I haven’t driver license),I feel like I waste a day for nothing,and i also feel like my husband don't even had a bad words about what his mom did,I feel very frustrated. My mother in law is a pretty nice person,but about this thing,should I feel mad at her not tell us earlier that she won’t come ?should I feel mad at my husband to say his mom try to call before but she didn’t? hmmm,so frustrate.