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I'm the other woman! O.O

Anonymous
Posted by Anonymous
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I have been a single mom ever since my husband died in 2007. My daughter is 11 and she is my world.

I've been seeing this guy for a couple of months and he just told me that he has a wife and two kids one 5y/o and one 7y/o. We went on a date and he just dropped this bomb in the middle of dessert.

I told him "I'm not going to be the person who destroys their lives. Its over." and then I left the restaraunt.

I feel like a horrible person! What should I do?

I can't seem to stop thinking about that poor woman and those sweet innocent kids.

I left him the minute I found out, but I still feel really guilty.

I'm going to hell. I feel like such a horrible person. I've always loathed homewreckers, but now I feel like I am one.

I can't believe I did that! I've been a mess these past few days and I just need a little support, but I dont have the balls to tell my girlfriends or my mom.

Help?


Posted by Anonymous on Mar. 6, 2013 at 6:12 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Mar. 6, 2013 at 6:15 PM
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I have a 5 and 7 year old.  Where are you located?

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Mar. 6, 2013 at 6:16 PM

Houston, Texas. 


Quoting Anonymous:

I have a 5 and 7 year old.  Where are you located?



Gardeningmom4
by Ruby Member on Mar. 6, 2013 at 6:17 PM
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Sorry to hear that.You obviously didn't know and left the relationship as soon as you found out.You did the right thing by leaving him and he is the home wrecker not you.

Destiny907
by on Mar. 6, 2013 at 6:17 PM
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Well you did not know and what you did................I stand up and applaud you.  that big jerk.  His poor family.

Momo77
by Gold Member on Mar. 6, 2013 at 6:18 PM
You didn't know and you dumped when you found out. You're not a bad person.
steviegrace4
by on Mar. 6, 2013 at 6:18 PM
If you truly did not know the guilt is on him not you
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destiny2nv
by Platinum Member on Mar. 6, 2013 at 6:18 PM
Oh I'm in Houston! Sorry op it's not your fault :(
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CJsMommy92
by on Mar. 6, 2013 at 6:18 PM

YOu didn't know so you did nothing wrong


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Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Mar. 6, 2013 at 6:18 PM

You did the right thing. Now move on. Idk what other help you need.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Mar. 6, 2013 at 6:18 PM
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Damn.  I was going to say it was okay.  You can have him.

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Houston, Texas. 


Quoting Anonymous:

I have a 5 and 7 year old.  Where are you located?





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