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I would give up a child with special needs for adoption.....I know, I'm evil, but that's my confession.

Anonymous
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I don't have the patience to raise a child like that. If my son or daughter had been born with a deformity, or mental disease (that was detectable at that young age) I would have given them up. No questions asked. 

Posted by Anonymous on Mar. 6, 2013 at 6:41 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Mar. 6, 2013 at 6:42 PM
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I probably would too. I can honestly say I am not cut out to deal with a special needs child. It sounds bad, but hey at least I recognize my own weaknesses and limitations.
sadiebug1228
by on Mar. 6, 2013 at 6:43 PM
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My daughter has a lot of developmental delays and is the love of my life! Yes it's harder but I wouldn't change it for the world!
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by on Mar. 6, 2013 at 6:43 PM
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I hope these ladies eat you alive... SELFISH.
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by Anonymous 3 on Mar. 6, 2013 at 6:43 PM
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I understand it can be hard on parents. My friend has a special needs daughter and I can see how hard it is on her. I wouldn't judge a mother who couldn't handle it.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Mar. 6, 2013 at 6:44 PM
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no. Honest. 

Quoting cat405:

I hope these ladies eat you alive... SELFISH.


Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Mar. 6, 2013 at 6:44 PM
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I would have an abortion for downs syndrome. I get you. Some people just cannot handle it.

amy1will
by Amethyst on Mar. 6, 2013 at 6:45 PM
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I could never give my Joseph up. He is perfect and he completes our lives. He had Down Syndrome. No matter what he is perfect.
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 5 on Mar. 6, 2013 at 6:45 PM
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It's not selfish.  She's admitting she can't handle it.  I know one or two moms who should've given their kids up for adoption, the kids would have been better off.

Quoting cat405:

I hope these ladies eat you alive... SELFISH.



Anonymous
by Anonymous 6 on Mar. 6, 2013 at 6:45 PM
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I would too, and it's far from SELFISH to give a child a better life.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 7 on Mar. 6, 2013 at 6:45 PM
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Its Down Syndrome. Not Downs.

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I would have an abortion for downs syndrome. I get you. Some people just cannot handle it.

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