At this point, with a 4 year old, a 2 year old, and one on the way... I'd say 2x a week is healthy, finding time and energy for more is hard!
When I'm not pregnant a minimum of three times a week is healthy for us. DH is good with that. On average though it's more like five times a week. When I'm pregnant, healthy varies. With my first two pregnancies my sex drive went through the rough so our sex life got a lot busier. With my third pregnancy DH worked between 80-100 hours a week so our sex life was minimal...maybe once a week. This time my sex drive is down, so DH is lucky to get sex once a week.
Quoting Anonymous:DuH and I have been debating this. I say once a week isn't healthy when were in our 30's and he looks at porn to satisfy himself otherwise. Especially when I ready, willing and able.
I consider a healthy sex life to be where both parties are happy with their sex life. Lol.
For me I would say like 3 times a week
once a day
1-2 times a month
4-7 times a week.... but in all honesty, it's more for us but I know some people are not as sexually driven so I think it depends on both people in the relationship and making sure you are sexually compatible.
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