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What do you consider to be a healthy sex life?

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How many times a week or month would you consider to be a healthy sex life with you SO?
Posted by Anonymous on Mar. 6, 2013 at 8:52 PM
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Blueliner
by Platinum Member on Mar. 6, 2013 at 8:57 PM
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At this point, with a 4 year old, a 2 year old, and one on the way... I'd say 2x a week is healthy, finding time and energy for more is hard! 

MamaMoopsie
by on Mar. 6, 2013 at 8:58 PM

When I'm not pregnant a minimum of three times a week is healthy for us. DH is good with that. On average though it's more like five times a week. When I'm pregnant, healthy varies. With my first two pregnancies my sex drive went through the rough so our sex life got a lot busier. With my third pregnancy DH worked between 80-100 hours a week so our sex life was minimal...maybe once a week. This time my sex drive is down, so DH is lucky to get sex once a week.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Mar. 6, 2013 at 8:58 PM
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Porn can be bad for a relationship......


Quoting Anonymous:

DuH and I have been debating this. I say once a week isn't healthy when were in our 30's and he looks at porn to satisfy himself otherwise. Especially when I ready, willing and able.

haydsmom2007
by Gold Member on Mar. 6, 2013 at 8:58 PM
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I consider a healthy sex life to be where both parties are happy with their sex life. Lol.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 5 on Mar. 6, 2013 at 8:58 PM
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We're in our mid-twenties and sadly have sex every few weeks. I'm pregnant for one and for two he wants me to make the move and I'd rather sleep and when he makes the move its in a total creepy grope me way.
uriahadel
by Platinum Member on Mar. 6, 2013 at 8:58 PM
Whenever both couples agree to do it and want me. Me and my dh have sex almost everyday if I am not on my period and we both love it
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haydsmom2007
by Gold Member on Mar. 6, 2013 at 8:59 PM

For me I would say like 3 times a week 

damionsmama7195
by on Mar. 6, 2013 at 8:59 PM

once a day

momto3infl
by Gold Member on Mar. 6, 2013 at 8:59 PM

 1-2 times a month

mom2theA-team
by Gold Member on Mar. 6, 2013 at 9:01 PM

4-7 times a week.... but in all honesty, it's more for us but I know some people are not as sexually driven so I think it depends on both people in the relationship and making sure you are sexually compatible. 

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