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What do you consider to be a healthy sex life?

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How many times a week or month would you consider to be a healthy sex life with you SO?
Posted by Anonymous on Mar. 6, 2013 at 8:52 PM
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kelliehelvie
by on Mar. 7, 2013 at 9:51 PM

healthy*

LisaSmock
by on Mar. 7, 2013 at 9:55 PM
Agree IMO porn is cheating and for me it a big deal.


Quoting Anonymous:

Porn can be bad for a relationship......




Quoting Anonymous:

DuH and I have been debating this. I say once a week isn't healthy when were in our 30's and he looks at porn to satisfy himself otherwise. Especially when I ready, willing and able.


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RaeRaeNe
by on Mar. 7, 2013 at 10:00 PM

Lol why all the excuses for why you dont have sex enough, really you can figure out 15 minutes around your dang kids? No wonder men look at porn and please themselves, women really dont care about their husbands needs very much.


manda-nicole010
by on Mar. 7, 2013 at 10:01 PM

Healthy for him would be when he wants it. 
Healthy for me would be when I want it.

Lol we get frustrated easily when the other doesn't want it :p 

There is no set number of times a week


ashisamom
by on Mar. 7, 2013 at 10:06 PM

We are in the range of our early 30s...we do the deed daily...at least lol. usually more than that.

MissErin28
by on Mar. 7, 2013 at 11:23 PM

well right now we dont have sex at all, i am pregnant and have NO DRIVE at all, actually i am 100% turned off by anything sexual, and i am one lucky mama in the fact that my husband is 100% OK with and being very patient with waiting and hasnt ONCE tried to force the subject. Now when i wasnt pregnant, we probably had sex once a week ? maybe twice? sometimes once every other week? Everyone is different i suppose.. whatever works for your relationship :)

XOXO - Erin
MissErin28
by on Mar. 7, 2013 at 11:27 PM
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I really hate this so much. And i am sorry for using you as an example. But his needs? what about our needs ? or lack of need? I would be completely upset if my husband felt i needed get face down ass up every time his shit got hard. Having sex should be a mutual thing, something you share together when BOTH parties are ready and willing. Not just because one member of the relationship has a need at any given time. Why turn sex into a job?  I dont see anything wrong with masterbation either. I dont think there is anything wrong with watching porn. ( i understand some women are against porn, thats OK ) .

Quoting RaeRaeNe:

Lol why all the excuses for why you dont have sex enough, really you can figure out 15 minutes around your dang kids? No wonder men look at porn and please themselves, women really dont care about their husbands needs very much.



XOXO - Erin
brandydesiree
by Platinum Member on Mar. 7, 2013 at 11:30 PM
Dh and I have sex on a daily basis. We may skip a day or two a month.

However, I recognize that we aren't the norm.

I think healthy is 3-5 times a week.
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ms.bardes
by Bronze Member on Mar. 7, 2013 at 11:32 PM
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Agree 100% everyone is diffrent just because me n my hubby have sex like hampsters everyday sometimes more than once doesn't mean that would work for everyone...some like it more n some less n that's ok as long as hubby n wifey are happy if one isn't than talk about it; )


Quoting notabosley:

A healthy sex life is individual, one that satisfied you and your partner is the ideal. I don't think frequency is what really matters.

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JanuaryBaby06
by Gold Member on Mar. 7, 2013 at 11:34 PM
I wouldnt measure it by times a week but by passion and desire. No one should like there is a sex quota. I think if you feel sexy and desirable and you can show and feel that with your partner then your good.
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