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What do you consider to be a healthy sex life?

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How many times a week or month would you consider to be a healthy sex life with you SO?
Posted by Anonymous on Mar. 6, 2013 at 8:52 PM
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Sasha-
by Gold Member on Mar. 6, 2013 at 9:14 PM

Once a day, twice is better.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 10 on Mar. 6, 2013 at 9:15 PM
3-5 times a week
Hoevegirl1986
by Bronze Member on Mar. 6, 2013 at 9:17 PM
We have maybe 1-3have times a month if that but sex isnt a big part in our marriage.
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 11 on Mar. 6, 2013 at 9:19 PM
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If your happy with your sex life why stress about the amount of sex you have and whether or not others think its "healthy" i dated a guy that wanted sex everyday. it was quick, boring and annoying.
DH and I have GREAT sex every time we have sex but its not everyday. We enjoy each other. Send little love texts during the day with every intention if having sex that night but end up falling asleep. Or we go a few days without sex.

We do what makes us happy
Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Mar. 6, 2013 at 9:24 PM
The thing is. I don't think we are sexually compatible. Perhaps maybe I want it more because its quick and I'm often not satisfied with it. He will 'forget' the foreplay. Get caught up in the moment and bam he's done. Ok maybe not quite bam, but less than 15 minutes later.
Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Mar. 6, 2013 at 9:25 PM
Quoting IndigoRose:

The amount of times per week, per whatever,--- doesn't matter.  

What does matter is the amount of feeling that's in it all...  Is consideration for both partners shown?  Is there tenderness and passion?  Is there that (Oooooo!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!) chemistry that makes you go all googly inside and makes you positively melt?...

THATS what matters.




I'd love some googly inside. :-P
Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Mar. 6, 2013 at 9:28 PM
Quoting Anonymous:




We never watched it together. I've asked, offered to order sexy movies to watch together. He wants his porn watching to not be something he shares. Sometimes I suspect he goes into the bathroom before dinner when I'm with our some to rub one out.
CJsMommy92
by on Mar. 6, 2013 at 9:29 PM

Once a week


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alexsmomma06
by Platinum Member on Mar. 6, 2013 at 9:30 PM

We have sex 3-5 times a week.

I think healthy depends on how often both people want it and if they are both satisfied with it.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 12 on Mar. 6, 2013 at 9:30 PM
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As much as both are happy with.
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