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What do you consider to be a healthy sex life?

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How many times a week or month would you consider to be a healthy sex life with you SO?
Posted by Anonymous on Mar. 6, 2013 at 8:52 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Mar. 6, 2013 at 10:12 PM
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Haha I had toys before him and to take care of what he doesn't. I use them when I can, because I don't think I should have to go sexually frustrated or disappointed because he would rather a 5 minute palm party.
Anonymous
by Anonymous on Mar. 6, 2013 at 10:12 PM
People who have sex 3-5 times a week how do you find time?!?!
louzannalady
by Gold Member on Mar. 6, 2013 at 10:16 PM
I would consider a healthy sex life as one that is first monogomous. And second, has the frequency and duration that meet the needs of the two parties involved, determined by honest and open communication with one another. If they are having sex three times a day, that may not be healthy, if one partner has healthy issues, like recoverying from a surgery. Once a year may not be healthy and may indicate an issue or it may indicate there are physical health concerns. It really is up to the people in the relationship.
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louzannalady
by Gold Member on Mar. 6, 2013 at 10:17 PM
Make sure the kids are in bed by eight or nine. ; )

Quoting Anonymous:

People who have sex 3-5 times a week how do you find time?!?!
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Dee0886
by Gold Member on Mar. 6, 2013 at 10:19 PM

Same...its starting to drop though since I'm in my 7th month of pregnancy.

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WE do it atleast 3 to 5 times a week .... IDK 


expecting boy                                its a boy 

Wifey to Rogen, Mommy to Adian (5) and Ally (4), Expecting in May

Anonymous
by Anonymous on Mar. 6, 2013 at 10:19 PM
As long as you are both satisfied then it's a healthy sex life.

We have sex on an average of 4-5 times a week.
Anonymous
by Anonymous on Mar. 6, 2013 at 10:22 PM
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They do at 730. Then I'm typically doing house work. Then workout at 10-1030 to 11-1130. Pre k in the mornings Tuesdays and Thursdays. Dd has karate those days in the afternoons. Dh works 6 days a week from 730-530 then supper. Plus all the other activities that seem to always come up and karate tournaments and a nine month on top of it. We never find us time its crazy. Someday I hope lol.

Quoting louzannalady:

Make sure the kids are in bed by eight or nine. ; )




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People who have sex 3-5 times a week how do you find time?!?!
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Makhismommy
by Member on Mar. 6, 2013 at 10:24 PM

 we do it less now but a couple times a week

Anonymous
by Anonymous on Mar. 6, 2013 at 10:24 PM
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Unfortunately alot of young men think when they get married it is guaranteed every night and this is where newly married couples begin to fight, if people would be open and discuss this before marriage I bet there would be alot less fighting.  I think alot of young women are more sexually  active before marriage then turn into too much "housewife mode" and put sex 2nd when all along through the engagement they led their DF to believe it was a priority.  A healthy sex life = communication first. 

Anonymous
by Anonymous on Mar. 6, 2013 at 10:24 PM
We do it 3-5 times a week. I'm pregnant right now so its a little less. I have zero drive while preggo
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