After the meeting, dh said, "I can't believe you asked her if she has kids! That was so awkward. It's none of your business if she has kids or not!"
Her profession is dealing with women in labor and birth. I dont think it's unreasonable to ask if she has kids. It doesn't bother me that she doesn't have any. She's a wonderfully sweet lady and a very calming presence.
Was I unintentionally rude?