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What an IDIOT!!

Anonymous
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My ex decided four weeks ago to start his visitation with his daughter finally. He has had two visitations so far. Today he text me that he wants her for the weekend now! He has spent 4 hours with her now her entire life! She is 10 months old. The CO says he gets 2 hours every other weekend and it is to gradually increase as she matures. Am I a 8itch for telling him "no". Seriously only an idiot can think that 2 hours should suddenly go to 48 in an instant!
Posted by Anonymous on Mar. 7, 2013 at 6:27 PM
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Kodysmommy928
by Platinum Member on Mar. 7, 2013 at 6:28 PM

 Yeah, that wouldn't be happening.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Mar. 7, 2013 at 6:30 PM
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Yeah. No. You're right, he's an idiot.

BrittSam2011
by Platinum Member on Mar. 7, 2013 at 6:34 PM

Say no!! He doesn't know how to handle a baby for long periods of time yet! You don't want him doing something stupid like forgetting her somewhere or shaking her when she cries!!!

Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Mar. 7, 2013 at 6:36 PM
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uh yea, no way in hell that would happen. dh has been is ds's life from the start and i would be nervous letting him be in charge for a whole weekend on his own. overprotective mommy here obviously lol but i think you are totally justified in telling him no!

mommysangelface
by Emerald Member on Mar. 7, 2013 at 6:38 PM
But its in the court order right?

I think he's wrong but I think you needs to get that changed or you can be found in contempt
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Mar. 7, 2013 at 6:38 PM

What?  Why?  I know my husband can't handle our kids for two days straight alone and he lives with us!

ruggy03
by on Mar. 7, 2013 at 6:39 PM
Whos the CO?and what problems would that cause for you legally?
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Mar. 7, 2013 at 6:39 PM
I already told him no.

Quoting BrittSam2011:

Say no!! He doesn't know how to handle a baby for long periods of time yet! You don't want him doing something stupid like forgetting her somewhere or shaking her when she cries!!!

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Mar. 7, 2013 at 6:41 PM
Nope. We are following the order My lawyer already told me how to gradually increase it for her safety.

Quoting mommysangelface:

But its in the court order right?



I think he's wrong but I think you needs to get that changed or you can be found in contempt
mommysangelface
by Emerald Member on Mar. 7, 2013 at 6:42 PM
Ok I read that wrong. I thought it said AND every other weekend. I'm sorry

Quoting Anonymous:

Nope. We are following the order My lawyer already told me how to gradually increase it for her safety.



Quoting mommysangelface:

But its in the court order right?





I think he's wrong but I think you needs to get that changed or you can be found in contempt
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