Do you wish family members a happy anniversary? My husband and I had our first anniversary yesterday and no one in his family said anything. I'm not upset but I am confused. My family has always made a fairly big deal about wishing people a happy anniversary and I guess I assumed it was the norm. Maybe I was wrong? My husband said he was a little hurt because he figures the ydidn;t say anything because they didn't remember. I feel kinda bad for him and am hoping maybe we just had unrealistic expectations and it's really not a big deal, if that makes sense.