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So....my abortion is scheduled for next Tuesday. What should I expect?

Posted by Anonymous   + Show Post

please no  bashing... i'm so fucking scared.  Go anon if you want to...just please please tell me what i am going to have to go through!!!!!

Posted by Anonymous on Mar. 7, 2013 at 11:28 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 29 on Mar. 8, 2013 at 12:02 AM

A lot of drama. Depending on what city you live in, there's a lot of places that experience protestors standing outside. As far as know there's a lot of cramping that goes on afterwards. I never in a million years would have thought that two days I ago I would be sitting in my bedroom thinking "if my period doesn't come, I'm going to do it." But I did and thankfully (for the sake of my sanity) my period came yesterday morning. I don't judge you and I wish you the best of luck.

ElizabethGracie
by on Mar. 8, 2013 at 12:04 AM
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Do you know what God also says?He says to turn the other cheek,but only if we are hit. Have you ever noticed that in the Lord's Prayer it says 'forgive us our trespasses as we forgive those who trespass against us'? It doesn't say 'forgive us our trespasses as we forgive those who trespass against the entire human race'. We can only forgive what has been done to us. In God's eyes, this woman and her abortion have nothing do with you. You can't forgive her,nor can you condemn her because she did not sin against you. Her sin is between her and God,it literally has nothing to do with you.

Maybe you should think about that before you go around telling people that God will punish them.

Quoting Anonymous:

No I think her & women like her who kill their unborn babies are murders! God will punish them. God says thou shall not kill. It goes for unborn babies too.



Quoting Mocking.Jay:

Fuck you think she is? A breeding cow????? For unfortunate couples who can't reproduce???



Quoting Anonymous:

Your killing you child, I'm sure for the rest of your life you'll feel like a part of you is miss. I'm sure you'll feel regret & I wish you hadn't murdered you baby. Why not let someone adopt your baby? If you can't afford the med bills why not get a medical card? People think abortion is their only option & its not. Please reconsider killing your baby. Give your baby's chance to live & be loved!



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Anonymous
by Anonymous 22 on Mar. 8, 2013 at 12:04 AM
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It is ironic to me, and sad as well, that you can say that an abortion is not the death of a child, and then laugh about it, and then call ME the dumbass...


Quoting numonestunar:

Death of a child? Wtf ? She is not killing a child. Lol dumbass

Quoting Anonymous:

Well, you should expect the death of your child...

Other than that im not sure. 

Ive never done it. 


paganmommy4
by on Mar. 8, 2013 at 12:07 AM


What anonymous said is correct. Easy peasy.. But you'll  have sucky cramps for awhile

If you are further than 12 weeks most likely you'll be out completely. 

An instrument will be inserted and no they dont show you, its a canulla with a sharp knife at the end to make the contents of conception easier to aspirate with the vacuum, then a nurse will take the contents of conception into another room to make sure all the bits are accounted for because leaving something behind could cause infection.

Youll be given pain meds and antibiotics and a drug (metforamin) to help stop the bleeding.


Quoting kmorales7690:

That is sickening.

Quoting Anonymous:

You will wait in a room with other women, they will call you back and you will pay. They will then take you to do your ultrasound and they will determine how far along you are. They will have you watch videos and all that shit so that you know what to expect. They will then offer you to talk to a counselor. After you are done with that they will take you back to the "O.R" part. They will take you to a locker and have you undress and give you a gown and a blanket. they will then give you some pills to help your nerves and your body to prepare. you will then be sat down in a room with other women and wait your turn. You will be taken back and layed on a table. They will prop your feet and tell you to spread your legs..the doc will show you the "utensil" that will dilate your cervix and he/ she will give a shot in your cervix to help numb a bit..he will then dilate you and tell you that you will feel some pain and then you will feel tugging and some cramps. the loud machine will come on and a nurse will be there to hold your hand..it will be done in 5 min or less..they will escort you to a room with other women and you will sit on a "rocking chair" with a pad on it.. they will monitor your blood pressure and give you a pad with undies..usually after 30 min or so ( usually more if you get the shot for sedation before the procedure) they will give you some scripts, birth control and send you your way.


goodluck.



Anonymous
by Anonymous 30 on Mar. 8, 2013 at 12:08 AM
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I didn't want to see this now!!   


Quoting Anonymous:

That u wont see this in 8more months :/


 

Mocking.Jay
by Gold Member on Mar. 8, 2013 at 12:08 AM
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Religion is a dying belief.

Quoting Anonymous:

People never think about those kids. Just trying not to kill a bunch of cells. Mine was done at 8 weeks. I am pro choice and I don't care what someone else chooses. Idk why so many people on here do care. Then they pull the god card and act like everyone believes in him.




Quoting Mocking.Jay:

Exactly.





Quoting Anonymous:

Lol ty. I have had an abortion. But I am not a baby machine for some person who wants a baby. I do regret mine. But I refuse to give a child up for adoption when so many kids are in the system and need a home. No one wants those kids. They want a nice shiny new baby. Fuck that.








Quoting Mocking.Jay:

A+. LOL









Quoting Anonymous:

Yeah people regret those also.












Quoting Anonymous:

Expect regret. Adoption is a better option.



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raye-chan
by Raye on Mar. 8, 2013 at 12:09 AM

No judging from me. You're already getting enough. 


You'll feel very crampy and sore for awhile, too. Plus very emotional usually. Sorry :/

Anonymous
by Anonymous 16 on Mar. 8, 2013 at 12:09 AM
Mine was the pill and I didn't take shit when I cramped up it anything. Not even afterwords. It hurt like a bitch.


Quoting paganmommy4:


What anonymous said is correct. Easy peasy.. But you'll  have sucky cramps for awhile

If you are further than 12 weeks most likely you'll be out completely. 

An instrument will be inserted and no they dont show you, its a canulla with a sharp knife at the end to make the contents of conception easier to aspirate with the vacuum, then a nurse will take the contents of conception into another room to make sure all the bits are accounted for because leaving something behind could cause infection.

Youll be given pain meds and antibiotics and a drug (metforamin) to help stop the bleeding.



Quoting kmorales7690:

That is sickening.



Quoting Anonymous:

You will wait in a room with other women, they will call you back and you will pay. They will then take you to do your ultrasound and they will determine how far along you are. They will have you watch videos and all that shit so that you know what to expect. They will then offer you to talk to a counselor. After you are done with that they will take you back to the "O.R" part. They will take you to a locker and have you undress and give you a gown and a blanket. they will then give you some pills to help your nerves and your body to prepare. you will then be sat down in a room with other women and wait your turn. You will be taken back and layed on a table. They will prop your feet and tell you to spread your legs..the doc will show you the "utensil" that will dilate your cervix and he/ she will give a shot in your cervix to help numb a bit..he will then dilate you and tell you that you will feel some pain and then you will feel tugging and some cramps. the loud machine will come on and a nurse will be there to hold your hand..it will be done in 5 min or less..they will escort you to a room with other women and you will sit on a "rocking chair" with a pad on it.. they will monitor your blood pressure and give you a pad with undies..usually after 30 min or so ( usually more if you get the shot for sedation before the procedure) they will give you some scripts, birth control and send you your way.


goodluck.





jojo_382
by Silver Member on Mar. 8, 2013 at 12:12 AM
these are my exact words and how I feel instead of helping her instead it's the opposite I thought this site was for support not to bash other ppl sfm


Quoting RaynesMommy07:

Swear SOME of you women just can't or don't know how to put your personal feelings aside to help someone no matter what. Some of these comments are so asinine and pathetic.



OP, I honestly don't know what you should expect Hun. I do however wish you all the best.

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Anonymous
by Anonymous 31 on Mar. 8, 2013 at 12:12 AM
I agree, what a stupid comment! Not a child...

Quoting Anonymous:

It is ironic to me, and sad as well, that you can say that an abortion is not the death of a child, and then laugh about it, and then call ME the dumbass...


Quoting numonestunar:

Death of a child? Wtf ? She is not killing a child. Lol dumbass



Quoting Anonymous:

Well, you should expect the death of your child...

Other than that im not sure. 

Ive never done it. 


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