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So....my abortion is scheduled for next Tuesday. What should I expect?

Posted by Anonymous   + Show Post

please no  bashing... i'm so fucking scared.  Go anon if you want to...just please please tell me what i am going to have to go through!!!!!

Posted by Anonymous on Mar. 7, 2013 at 11:28 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 7 on Mar. 7, 2013 at 11:32 PM
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You should expect to feel like shit for killing your child, I would think.
Mocking.Jay
by Gold Member on Mar. 7, 2013 at 11:32 PM
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You should not be expecting anything after that lmaooooooo!!!!
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Toxic.Stardust
by on Mar. 7, 2013 at 11:32 PM
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she might not be able to afford 9 months of medical bills.

Quoting Anonymous:

Why? Why not adoption?


Anonymous
by Anonymous 8 on Mar. 7, 2013 at 11:32 PM
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It's not as bad as you think. You go in, they dope you up get in and out and you have some juice or pop and a cookie and you sit for a few mins and you go. Or at least that's how.mine was.. It wasn't pleasant, but I was expecting worse.. It didn't take very long..you feel cramps and you bleed for a few days after..
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areles
by on Mar. 7, 2013 at 11:32 PM
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oh please.


Quoting Anonymous:

An eternity in hell.


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Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Mar. 7, 2013 at 11:33 PM
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Medicaid?

The adoptive parents pay in some cases. My mother paid for my bio mom's medical bills. 

Quoting Toxic.Stardust:

she might not be able to afford 9 months of medical bills.

Quoting Anonymous:

Why? Why not adoption?




Anonymous
by Anonymous 9 on Mar. 7, 2013 at 11:33 PM
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You will wait in a room with other women, they will call you back and you will pay. They will then take you to do your ultrasound and they will determine how far along you are. They will have you watch videos and all that shit so that you know what to expect. They will then offer you to talk to a counselor. After you are done with that they will take you back to the "O.R" part. They will take you to a locker and have you undress and give you a gown and a blanket. they will then give you some pills to help your nerves and your body to prepare. you will then be sat down in a room with other women and wait your turn. You will be taken back and layed on a table. They will prop your feet and tell you to spread your legs..the doc will show you the "utensil" that will dilate your cervix and he/ she will give a shot in your cervix to help numb a bit..he will then dilate you and tell you that you will feel some pain and then you will feel tugging and some cramps. the loud machine will come on and a nurse will be there to hold your hand..it will be done in 5 min or less..they will escort you to a room with other women and you will sit on a "rocking chair" with a pad on it.. they will monitor your blood pressure and give you a pad with undies..usually after 30 min or so ( usually more if you get the shot for sedation before the procedure) they will give you some scripts, birth control and send you your way.


goodluck.

Tatiana7
by Gold Member on Mar. 7, 2013 at 11:33 PM
I would be so scared too!!
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 10 on Mar. 7, 2013 at 11:33 PM
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troll im sorry but theres been nothing but abortion posts here today and now im calling bs . stop stiring up the pot

LiDoMama
by Gold Member on Mar. 7, 2013 at 11:34 PM
It depends on how far along you are & what type of abortion you are having.
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