Join the Meeting Place for Moms!
Talk to other moms, share advice, and have fun!

(minimum 6 characters)

Mom Confessions Mom Confessions

So....my abortion is scheduled for next Tuesday. What should I expect?

Posted by Anonymous   + Show Post

please no  bashing... i'm so fucking scared.  Go anon if you want to...just please please tell me what i am going to have to go through!!!!!

Posted by Anonymous on Mar. 7, 2013 at 11:28 PM
Replies (21-30):
Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Mar. 7, 2013 at 11:34 PM
1 mom liked this

This is so sad. 

Quoting Anonymous:

You will wait in a room with other women, they will call you back and you will pay. They will then take you to do your ultrasound and they will determine how far along you are. They will have you watch videos and all that shit so that you know what to expect. They will then offer you to talk to a counselor. After you are done with that they will take you back to the "O.R" part. They will take you to a locker and have you undress and give you a gown and a blanket. they will then give you some pills to help your nerves and your body to prepare. you will then be sat down in a room with other women and wait your turn. You will be taken back and layed on a table. They will prop your feet and tell you to spread your legs..the doc will show you the "utensil" that will dilate your cervix and he/ she will give a shot in your cervix to help numb a bit..he will then dilate you and tell you that you will feel some pain and then you will feel tugging and some cramps. the loud machine will come on and a nurse will be there to hold your hand..it will be done in 5 min or less..they will escort you to a room with other women and you will sit on a "rocking chair" with a pad on it.. they will monitor your blood pressure and give you a pad with undies..usually after 30 min or so ( usually more if you get the shot for sedation before the procedure) they will give you some scripts, birth control and send you your way.


goodluck.



Anonymous
by Anonymous 11 on Mar. 7, 2013 at 11:34 PM
4 moms liked this
Well basically you will be giving the ok for someone to murder your child. Hmm what do you think you are going to go through. Why are you scared? no one is killing you! Good luck with that!
aimhawk
by Gold Member on Mar. 7, 2013 at 11:34 PM
12 moms liked this

I'm not even religious and that's how I feel. Murder is murder some is just more violent than others. But killing children is never acceptable.

Quoting areles:

oh please.


Quoting Anonymous:

An eternity in hell.



Toxic.Stardust
by on Mar. 7, 2013 at 11:34 PM

either way, it's her choice. she may have had really difficult pregnancies in the past

Quoting Anonymous:

Medicaid?

The adoptive parents pay in some cases. My mother paid for my bio mom's medical bills. 

Quoting Toxic.Stardust:

she might not be able to afford 9 months of medical bills.

Quoting Anonymous:

Why? Why not adoption?





Anonymous
by Anonymous 12 on Mar. 7, 2013 at 11:35 PM
1 mom liked this
Why would you start this bs again?
Anonymous
by Anonymous 9 on Mar. 7, 2013 at 11:36 PM

I agree but she wanted the truth.

Quoting Anonymous:

This is so sad. 

Quoting Anonymous:

You will wait in a room with other women, they will call you back and you will pay. They will then take you to do your ultrasound and they will determine how far along you are. They will have you watch videos and all that shit so that you know what to expect. They will then offer you to talk to a counselor. After you are done with that they will take you back to the "O.R" part. They will take you to a locker and have you undress and give you a gown and a blanket. they will then give you some pills to help your nerves and your body to prepare. you will then be sat down in a room with other women and wait your turn. You will be taken back and layed on a table. They will prop your feet and tell you to spread your legs..the doc will show you the "utensil" that will dilate your cervix and he/ she will give a shot in your cervix to help numb a bit..he will then dilate you and tell you that you will feel some pain and then you will feel tugging and some cramps. the loud machine will come on and a nurse will be there to hold your hand..it will be done in 5 min or less..they will escort you to a room with other women and you will sit on a "rocking chair" with a pad on it.. they will monitor your blood pressure and give you a pad with undies..usually after 30 min or so ( usually more if you get the shot for sedation before the procedure) they will give you some scripts, birth control and send you your way.


goodluck.




ididntdoit111
by on Mar. 7, 2013 at 11:36 PM


Quoting Mocking.Jay:

You should not be expecting anything after that lmaooooooo!!!!

lmfao!!

_mimimosley_
by Ruby Member on Mar. 7, 2013 at 11:37 PM
How far along are you?
Posted on the NEW CafeMom Mobile
sweet.lil.mama.
by Silver Member on Mar. 7, 2013 at 11:37 PM
Then don't do it....
Posted on CafeMom Mobile
Anonymous
by Anonymous 13 on Mar. 7, 2013 at 11:37 PM
2 moms liked this
Do not ask these simple minded fools on here. Just follow the directions your doctor gave you and everything will be fine. Good luck.
Add your quick reply below:
You must be a member to reply to this post.
Join the Meeting Place for Moms!
Talk to other moms, share advice, and have fun!

(minimum 6 characters)

close Join now to connect to
other members!
Connect with Facebook or Sign Up Using Email

Already Joined? LOG IN