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So....my abortion is scheduled for next Tuesday. What should I expect?

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please no  bashing... i'm so fucking scared.  Go anon if you want to...just please please tell me what i am going to have to go through!!!!!

Posted by Anonymous on Mar. 7, 2013 at 11:28 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 14 on Mar. 7, 2013 at 11:38 PM

I believe its a lot like a D&C
You'll go in..they'll give you some medication that will put you to sleep and some medication to dilate your cervix
Then they will go in and use a suction to get everything out
When you wake up you might be crampy
They will probably give you some pain meds (not sure they don't always) and most likely some antibiotics just in case of infection (take them!!!)

You might spot for a few days or a week...maybe longer (everyone is different)
thats about it

Mocking.Jay
by Gold Member on Mar. 7, 2013 at 11:38 PM
I had to play with her title lol.

Quoting ididntdoit111:


Quoting Mocking.Jay:

You should not be expecting anything after that lmaooooooo!!!!

lmfao!!

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colins_mom
by Ruby Member on Mar. 7, 2013 at 11:38 PM
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no judgement from me. I dont know what you are going through. I've never had an abortion but if you want someone to talk to you can pm.me
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Cbreland07
by Ruby Member on Mar. 7, 2013 at 11:38 PM
So incredibly sad
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 13 on Mar. 7, 2013 at 11:38 PM
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This is NOT cute.

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That u wont see this in 8more months :/
Anonymous
by Anonymous 15 on Mar. 7, 2013 at 11:39 PM
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Your killing you child, I'm sure for the rest of your life you'll feel like a part of you is miss. I'm sure you'll feel regret & I wish you hadn't murdered you baby. Why not let someone adopt your baby? If you can't afford the med bills why not get a medical card? People think abortion is their only option & its not. Please reconsider killing your baby. Give your baby a chance to live & be loved!
lendales_mommi
by on Mar. 7, 2013 at 11:39 PM

Anything about abortion on here wont get taken seriously........I wish you the best and congrats on making a tough decision that ONLY YOU can make:) I hope you protect yourself in the future so you never have to go through this again :(

sweet.lil.mama.
by Silver Member on Mar. 7, 2013 at 11:39 PM
They don't stay huge I breastfed for 10 months. They went back to normal and my boobs aren't saggy


Quoting Mocking.Jay:

Cute baby. Gross bologna nipples. :/



Quoting Anonymous:

That u wont see this in 8more months :/

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Anonymous
by Anonymous 16 on Mar. 7, 2013 at 11:40 PM
What kind are you having? And how far along are you?
britadams10
by on Mar. 7, 2013 at 11:41 PM
It's not bad at all. I've heard so many horror stories but really it all depends on how far you are. I was 6 weeks. Knocked out during so you feel nothing. Then after its just like regular menstrual cramps. they will give you pain killers but you probably won't need them.
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