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(minimum 6 characters) abortion is scheduled for next Tuesday. What should I expect?

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please no  bashing... i'm so fucking scared.  Go anon if you want to...just please please tell me what i am going to have to go through!!!!!

Posted by Anonymous on Mar. 7, 2013 at 11:28 PM
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by Member on Mar. 10, 2013 at 12:17 PM

abortion is killing a baby i don't believe in it Maybe you should put it up for adoption and make another family happy with God's gift to you.

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by Anonymous 111 on Mar. 10, 2013 at 12:21 PM

 My mom aborted, and she's quite real. ;)  Oh and FYI- MURDER IS ILLEGAL.

Quoting maof1soon2b2:

LMAO! You're funny! REAL mothers don't have abortions, murderers do! And I didn't know I could "scream" in a life!

Quoting Anonymous:

Lady, Shut the fuck up. You don't get to decide who stays and who goes here. And you certainly don't have the right to scream at someone to leave. You just made yourself look completely unbalanced and irrational. Fucking zealot.

Quoting maof1soon2b2:

Why are you on a mother's website when you are going to kill off a living being...YOU ARE NOT A MOTHER SO LEAVE!!! If you can't afford or take care of a baby, use protection stupid!!! I could go on but I'll spare you.



by on Mar. 10, 2013 at 12:26 PM
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OP--I can't tell you from personal experience what you're going to go through physically, mentally and emotionally. I do know as an observer of another who had an abortion several years ago, that on all three counts, it's not easy.

Please ignore the horrible comments you've been receiving. You're being bullied and from alleged "grown women," too. Women who claim to be in support of the fetus you're carrying but will suggest that you "should have been aborted."

They are trash. Every last one of them.

I wish you all the best. ((((((((((((((Hugs)))))))))))))))

by Bronze Member on Mar. 10, 2013 at 12:33 PM
So you're arguing the definition in the dictionary? Get over yourself.

Quoting numonestunar:

If it cannot live outside its host, then no it is not child. Boy, you're a "smart" one too.

Quoting SallyStitches:

She said death of HER child, not A child.  Technically, it is the OP's child.  Look up the definition of "child" before you call someone else a dumbass.  Better yet, I will do it for you.


  [chahyld]  Show IPA
noun, plural chil·dren.
1. a person between birth and full growth; a boy or girl: books for children.
2. a son or daughter: All my children are married.
3. a baby or infant.
4. a human fetus.
5. a childish person: He's such a child about money.

Quoting numonestunar:

Death of a child? Wtf ? She is not killing a child. Lol dumbass

Quoting Anonymous:

Well, you should expect the death of your child...

Other than that im not sure. 

Ive never done it. 

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by Anonymous 112 on Mar. 10, 2013 at 3:42 PM
My 20 week ultrasound is Tuesday
One baby being praised another murdered♥
by on Mar. 10, 2013 at 3:46 PM
Um hopefully a life full of guilt afterwards
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by Platinum Member on Mar. 10, 2013 at 3:49 PM
Hugs hun. No bashing from me. Just be prepared for a rollercoaster of emotions especially if you will be awake during the procedure. And some mold pain and discomfort after. I suggest reaching out to a counselor or therapist afterwards. Going through with an abortion can cause depression and anxiety. It's not an easy choice, and you may need some help getting through until you can learn to cope with it.
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by Ruby Member on Mar. 10, 2013 at 3:50 PM

OMG!!!!!! I think I'm going to be sick!!!!!!!!!!!

Quoting Anonymous:

You will wait in a room with other women, they will call you back and you will pay. They will then take you to do your ultrasound and they will determine how far along you are. They will have you watch videos and all that shit so that you know what to expect. They will then offer you to talk to a counselor. After you are done with that they will take you back to the "O.R" part. They will take you to a locker and have you undress and give you a gown and a blanket. they will then give you some pills to help your nerves and your body to prepare. you will then be sat down in a room with other women and wait your turn. You will be taken back and layed on a table. They will prop your feet and tell you to spread your legs..the doc will show you the "utensil" that will dilate your cervix and he/ she will give a shot in your cervix to help numb a bit..he will then dilate you and tell you that you will feel some pain and then you will feel tugging and some cramps. the loud machine will come on and a nurse will be there to hold your will be done in 5 min or less..they will escort you to a room with other women and you will sit on a "rocking chair" with a pad on it.. they will monitor your blood pressure and give you a pad with undies..usually after 30 min or so ( usually more if you get the shot for sedation before the procedure) they will give you some scripts, birth control and send you your way.


by Geek Goddess on Mar. 10, 2013 at 3:55 PM

no one can describe the sheer amount of WIN in both of you ladies' posts. (Mocking.jay and ElizabethGracie) Whenever there is a Christian post they get ripped apart that there is no God. But suddenly everyone is a Christian when abortion is mentioned. I think it is time to stop being hypocritical and to start loving thy neighbor. Jesus spent time with people who had sinned and done things that were 'socially wrong'-for example-prostitution. But He didn't care-He loved them despite their faults, their ups and downs. And the last thing He would want, for those using God and Hell as an argument, is for you to hate others in His name. We should love others, in hopes that we can lift them up, even in their darkest hour.

Quoting ElizabethGracie:

Do you know what God also says?He says to turn the other cheek,but only if we are hit. Have you ever noticed that in the Lord's Prayer it says 'forgive us our trespasses as we forgive those who trespass against us'? It doesn't say 'forgive us our trespasses as we forgive those who trespass against the entire human race'. We can only forgive what has been done to us. In God's eyes, this woman and her abortion have nothing do with you. You can't forgive her,nor can you condemn her because she did not sin against you. Her sin is between her and God,it literally has nothing to do with you.

Maybe you should think about that before you go around telling people that God will punish them.

Quoting Anonymous:

No I think her & women like her who kill their unborn babies are murders! God will punish them. God says thou shall not kill. It goes for unborn babies too.

Quoting Mocking.Jay:

Fuck you think she is? A breeding cow????? For unfortunate couples who can't reproduce???

Quoting Anonymous:

Your killing you child, I'm sure for the rest of your life you'll feel like a part of you is miss. I'm sure you'll feel regret & I wish you hadn't murdered you baby. Why not let someone adopt your baby? If you can't afford the med bills why not get a medical card? People think abortion is their only option & its not. Please reconsider killing your baby. Give your baby's chance to live & be loved!

by on Mar. 10, 2013 at 3:56 PM
Send me a message girlie!!!! I know people who r looking for colored babies if that the prob!!!!! I can help u find parents!!!!!!!!! Hell I'll take the baby!!!!!! I'll raise him or her!!!! Plz don't do this you'll end up regretting it!!!!!! God love u for u and that child he's for some reason blessed u with!!!! Everything happens for a reason girlie I know it's hard even if it a rape baby!!!! I miss carried my rape baby I was so depressed forever then god blessed me with another child!!!! That I ended up giving her for adoption and she's soooo happy now!!!! And now that I'm married and stable etc I have a newborn and a soon to b this month 2yr old !!!! I know birth might even sound scary to you but Christian birth parents r willing to help u at allllll extents !!!!!!! pLEASE SEND ME A MESSAGE!!!! I promise I can help u!!!!

Quoting Anonymous:

I didn't say that did I? I said that generally, rich or even well off white couples are often willing to help the birth mother while she is pregnant but yes, usually they want a white baby. If course she can put any baby up for adoption but she knows that.

Quoting Aislin:

What?? So just go ahead with the abortion if its not white? You obviously don't know enough about adoption to even address the rest of your reply

Quoting Anonymous:

Will this baby be white? If so, why not have the baby and find a rich family to adopt it. They will pay for your medical expenses, maternity clothes and many will help with living expenses while you are pregnant. This way you can help yourself a bit, you won't have to kill you child and you will give people a child who want one and can't have one on their own.

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