On top of what he gives me for child support. He is well off and will always be as he has invested his money. When we first divorced our kids were 2 and 4 years old. They had never been to daycare but I enrolled them and got a low paying job. They hated it so he approached me with this deal. He would support myself, the two children I had from a previous marriage, and our two children. He pays his court ordered child support and he also pays me a weekly paycheck . We have a signed contract that he will continue to pay both until our youngest is 21 years old. At that point he will stop paying child support but will continue to pay my weekly paycheck for the rest of my life. He would rather have our kids have a SAHM than go to daycare. Our children are now 8 and 11 and in school fulltime. I have one year left to go on my degree. According to our aggreement I can go to school while they are in school but can not take an outside job untill the youngest is 21. He has been remarried for Two years and his new wife is aggreeable to our situation as he made it clear to her that if she was not okay with it then they would not get married. He also had a vasectemy so he will never have more children he still acts as Dad to my oldest two as well. I am glad we both agree on our kids and get along in general. How would you feel id your DH had an agreement like this with his ex?