Married Mommas that took their husbands last name.
Lets say your maiden name is Smith, and your married name is Johnson. Do you feel like a Smith and a Johnson? Do you feel like a Smith when you are with the Smiths and a Johnson when you are with the Johnsons?
Do you still feel like a Smith, but not like a Johnson at all?
If you dont feel like a Johnson, does it bother you that your kids are Johnsons? Do you wish your kids could be Smiths?
I ask because I dont feel like a "Johnson" at all. I am not a "Johnson" I am a "Smith". My in-laws feel like DD is more theirs than my family's because her last name is "Johnson" and she looks more like a "Johnson".
How do you ladies feel?
ETA:: O think i worded this wrong. I know who I am, I am me. My last name doesnt play a part of it. What i mean is I dont feel like I'm part of the "Johnson" family. KWIM?