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Am I selfish??

Anonymous
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I am 18 with a 9 month old and I only want one more but me&my SO dont plan on ttc till 2015.

Now my reason I dont want my body ruined.Even after my first I lost all my weight then some(I went from 146 at full term to 111 now) and I breastfeed,and I plan to bf my second,so i dont want my breast to messed up.Also I am now working on getting my body back into shape.

Does that male me a selfish person??

Posted by Anonymous on Mar. 8, 2013 at 4:11 PM
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D.O.E.
by on Mar. 8, 2013 at 4:12 PM

no why would it make you selfish?

sburst
by Silver Member on Mar. 8, 2013 at 4:13 PM
Nah
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Mumtobeagain
by on Mar. 8, 2013 at 4:13 PM
Nope.
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Mar. 8, 2013 at 4:18 PM


Idk the women on this site are crazy&think some crazy shit LOL

Quoting D.O.E.:

no why would it make you selfish?



angelbabies11
by on Mar. 8, 2013 at 4:19 PM
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No... it means you're smart! Lol
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Mar. 8, 2013 at 4:23 PM


Right I mean I jsut dont want to be a frumpy mom chasing after 4-5 kids lol.Not to mention with the career feilds me&my SO plan to go into we'll be able to afford a better like as jsut a family of 4.

Quoting angelbabies11:

No... it means you're smart! Lol



Harleysmom213
by on Mar. 8, 2013 at 4:28 PM

 even if it made you selfish, so what? i've been selfish for so many reasons, but my selfishness is normally what's best for my family too. if your thinking of your health, then your baby will understand health as it grows.

rosaleeandtwo
by Gold Member on Mar. 8, 2013 at 4:30 PM
You can decide to not have (or wait to have) a child for whatever reason you want. Its your body so IMO you get to be "selfish" on this issue.
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NiCo86
by on Mar. 8, 2013 at 4:31 PM

 No, that makes you a smart person for giving yourself the time to get your body to heal and back in shape for having another baby.

ashley9603
by on Mar. 8, 2013 at 4:33 PM

No I dont think so....you are the one that has to be  pregnant and the one that has to deal with everything that comes with it.I got my tubes tied because I dont want anymore plus three is our limit,and it took me just under a year to lose all my baby weight I gained with the twins....if thats selfish so be it.lol.

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