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why do i feel like crap now?

Anonymous
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when i was in high school i dated the "bad boy" and i was genuinly in love with him,but im not to keen on PDA and called him my friend instead of my boyfriend a lot so he got fed up with it and left me. i feel horrible about it still after 4 years, anyway so today i saw him at the mall with his WIFE and their son, they we're holding hands and smiling at eachother and all the stuff id never do with him, and it made me miss him horribly. i started remembering him coming over to my house and watching movies with me and other things....and then i started thinking how much more pretty she was then me. perfect red hair....dresses like the girls he used to look at (alternative models not nudes or anything) athletic, big boobs,big ass.....everything i could have been for him but never fit into because i was always to fat. it made me wonder what my new bf thinks of me....why do i do this to myself

Posted by Anonymous on Mar. 8, 2013 at 5:13 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Mar. 8, 2013 at 5:15 PM

bump

AF2011
by Ruby Member on Mar. 8, 2013 at 5:15 PM

Because you confidence. You need to maybe talk to a counselor? I'm not sure. 

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Mar. 8, 2013 at 5:17 PM


Quoting AF2011:

Because you confidence. You need to maybe talk to a counselor? I'm not sure. 

iv been going to couselors since i was 8...it never seems to help

AF2011
by Ruby Member on Mar. 8, 2013 at 5:18 PM

Do you have females friends? Maybe hang out with them and talk. Everytime I'm feeling down my friends always know how to cheer me up and make me feel better about myself

Quoting Anonymous:


Quoting AF2011:

Because your confidence. You need to maybe talk to a counselor? I'm not sure. 

iv been going to couselors since i was 8...it never seems to help


Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Mar. 8, 2013 at 5:20 PM


Quoting AF2011:

Do you have females friends? Maybe hang out with them and talk. Everytime I'm feeling down my friends always know how to cheer me up and make me feel better about myself

Quoting Anonymous:


Quoting AF2011:

Because your confidence. You need to maybe talk to a counselor? I'm not sure. 

iv been going to couselors since i was 8...it never seems to help


yeah but if i tell them im thinking about him again they'll just be like "wth why are you thinking about him again? he left you because you wouldnt hold his hand"

sarahbsquare
by gralexmommy on Mar. 8, 2013 at 5:20 PM

because you have low self esteem and self worth so stop doing that shit because your awesome and if you have a prob with yourself fix it

Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Mar. 8, 2013 at 5:20 PM

Poor self esteem.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Mar. 8, 2013 at 5:21 PM


Quoting sarahbsquare:

because you have low self esteem and self worth so stop doing that shit because your awesome and if you have a prob with yourself fix it

iv tried fixing it....it never works, i always find something else that he would have liked 

catrig
by Platinum Member on Mar. 8, 2013 at 5:22 PM
You need healthy self esteem.
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kgsharber
by Platinum Member on Mar. 8, 2013 at 5:23 PM

Holy Insercurity Issues!

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