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Would YoU stay with him??

Anonymous
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My bf and I were talking, and we were talking about having babies. Whatever..

Anyways he then asks if I would give him the baby.. And I was like "why would I GIVE you the baby? Why wouldn't we just raise the baby together?" He comes back at me with "I don't want my baby raised in that hell hole! I don't want my child around your mom.. If I don't like her, why would I want my child around her?"

So I get he hates her, but what the hell?

I answered back "why are we even together if you're thinking like this?"

Then he said "are you threatening to break up with me!" I said "No, but I don't know why we are even talking about this, I'm not planning on getting pregnant.."

But honesty ladies... I don't know WHAT I'm doing right now. I don't know WHY I'm with him..

WHY am I with a man who thinks like this??

Would YOU stay with a man who thought like this about the future??
Posted by Anonymous on Mar. 8, 2013 at 5:52 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Mar. 8, 2013 at 5:53 PM
Nope.
EyansMom143
by Bronze Member on Mar. 8, 2013 at 5:54 PM
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Leave his ass. It'll only get worse in the long run, especially if a child is involved. He seems a bit controlling in even asking if you were threatening to break up with him, like what if you were? What would he do?
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Mar. 8, 2013 at 5:55 PM
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Not a chance in hell
Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Mar. 8, 2013 at 5:58 PM

No way.

mojogirl
by Ouiser Boudreaux on Mar. 8, 2013 at 5:59 PM

no, not if i was planning on having kids with him

timslilangel
by on Mar. 8, 2013 at 6:00 PM

 Leave him

cat405
by on Mar. 8, 2013 at 6:01 PM
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If you want kids around your mom then leave. He's an ass for even saying he would just take it from you.
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kdjdod081013
by on Mar. 8, 2013 at 6:02 PM
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Aw HELL NO!!!!!

I'd pack my stuff and be like "See ya later dude" Red flags all over the place with him.

cjsix
by Platinum Member on Mar. 8, 2013 at 6:02 PM
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waveBuh-bye,is what I would tell him. 

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Mar. 8, 2013 at 6:03 PM
He really wants to have a child with me...


Quoting mojogirl:

no, not if i was planning on having kids with him


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